To be fair aren't we always force into something for the plot to work in the first place?
That isn't my point. I would be upset if I was forced from the beginning to be an abomination and/or Spirit possessed. I have strong feelings against being either, and the idea seemed just hooky to me. I enjoy being the Designated Hero, I personally would not enjoy being forced to play something I hate. No, I don't think Wynne or Eve are bad people, but they are the rarest of exceptions.
If someone wants to be forced to be an abomination, they can have it. I wouldn't pay or play it myself. Oh and this isn't BG or KOTOR, this is Dragon Age. While some of the same team is apart of all those series, most of them are completely different teams. Plus, a black/white morality system not only has never been apart of DA, it isn't going to happen. The devs have said over and over again that they want the morality to remain as grey as possible. That's part of the reason why they did not use an alignment system of Good-Evil/Light-Dark Side.
So if you guys want it, knock yourself out. I'll do what I did with future Witcher games (only bought the first one and I was so disgusted I'm about to uninstall the POS) and keep my wallet closed if they made such a choice.