yes but they did supported moding and u could add them into a "resting house" and do many many short of things... So that was not a problem.
Even mass effect 2 that I own and it was NON gay, there is a mod program that it turns it into gay... Maybe your problem is the modding after all.
My problem personally is not the gay theme, but the luck of modding. I hope they will allow modding, without modding tools (at least). And if you wish it "gay", there are numerous of gay moders out there, to give you mods you love.
But we want it gay. We want actual gay romances, and gay side characters. We want romances that you dont need to change the game to have and for them to be important characters
We want lesbians, women that dont want men, and you cant romance as a man.
We dont want the game to be about straight people all the time and to be on the margin. We think Mass Effect would have been better if it was GAY. It had 6 romances. So...
Tali-Straight
Jack-Bisexual
Miranda-Lesbian
Thane-Straight
Garrus-Bi
Jacob-Gay
Would have made a better game to us.