I think that's the problem we're seeing a lot of. People feeling attachment to certain characters, attachment leads to people feeling like they have some sort of ownership of said character, who then feel they deserve some say in the development of the character. That leads to people saying things like "I looooove (insert waifu here) so I should have the right to romance them!"
Then i'm like "Cool, I should go tell Scarlett Johannson that I fancy her, so I should have the right to date her."
You are ignoring the fact that most people here have no such inclination, and just want options which most games/media never gives them. Most of us want a character or other, but personally the majority of people in this thread are expressing concerns over their equality. We want equal enjoyment and possibility in a game. That isnt unfair or unrealistic or acting like we are entitled to anyone.
I dont want Scribbles to be the lesbian option, because that means lesbians are relegated to an NPC who not only seems to have a similar role as Traynor but decreased role from the other companions. Sera, Vivienne, Cassandra, sure why not. Guys are the same. They want options and to be given a fair treatment which doesn't approach straight women, much less straight men. Mistaking that for feeling we are owed a specific character is mistaking the debate entirely.