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According to the Williams Institue of law, the average number of gays, lesbians, transgender, and bisexuals make up 3.8% of the American population. If "Dragon Age: Inqusition" was solely cattering to that demographic, they will lose an exponential amount of money. Straight men will play female characters, so they can play out a fantasy lesbian relationship. Many straight men (not all) could careless about this game being inclusive. Its all about hormones.

 

Also, after failing to gain an audience, the cable channel LogoTV discovered that - gay people do not base their entertainment around homosexuality.

 

...therefore, the overly local supporters of 'alternative storytelling' is in a very-very-very small minority.

 

As a heterosexual man, I don't have issue of the character I play in a game happens to be gay.  As you say, people don't base my entertainment around sexuality.  A good game is a good game, right?


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I wish you were all trolling.



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As a heterosexual man, I don't have issue of the character I play in a game happens to be gay.  As you say, people don't base my entertainment around sexuality.  A good game is a good game, right?

 

I guess it would depend upon 'how the sexuality' is protrayed. Willow and Tara, characters on "Buffy the Vampire Slayer", had a meaningful relationship. As someone who is a hetrosexual male, I personally didn't mind seeing the relationship spawn. I was a raving fan. Within my personal understadning, I think the stigmatism behind lesbian relationships is almost none existent. If we were talking about two homosexual males, the population approches it on a negative level.

 

When it comes to the political arena, the Democrat party uses the democraphic to gain votes. Its not from the heart. "Vote for me, and I will set you free" mentality is not the same as "I will help you regardless."

 

FYI - I said, "gay people do not base their entertainment around homosexuality."



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Yeah, but I'd be willing to bet that LGBT people make up a bigger percentage of the gaming population than the general population. So you can't really use population statistics to talk about gaming.

 

Also, this is getting off topic, but imho Logo's programming sucked. The gay people I know don't want 'gay entertainment'. They want mainstream, high-budget entertainment like everyone else that just so happens to have LGBT characters in it. I don't want stories about being gay (which much of Logo's TV was). I want mainstream genre TV (fantasy/scifi/supernatural themes) that includes LGBT characters. 

 

Seriously, I don't want a million teenage "coming out" stories.  Those kinds of stories are important, but they aren't the only thing I ever want to see.  I want fantasy and sci fi and adventure with characters that happen to be queer.

 

And from what I've observed, since geeks tend to be more on the fringes of society and tend to be more open-minded than the general population, I'd absolutely believe that there is a higher LGBT ratio in the gamer world.  Of course, I know a lot of nerdy bisexuals, so maybe that alters my perception slightly.


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Within my personal understadning, I think the stigmatism behind lesbian relationships is almost none existent. If we were talking about two homosexual males, the population approches it on a negative level.[/quote]

 

 

Because, I suspect, you are coming at it from the straight male perspective of 'lesbians are HAWT; gay men are icky'. That's not a perspective that should be privileged (but usually is, so is often thought of as 'just normal' or 'how most people think').

 

FYI - I said, "gay people do not base their entertainment around homosexuality."

 

Because if we did, then we'd miss out on a hellova lot of media. But Allan's point is still valid - if gay people don't base our entertainment preferences around our sexuality, why should straight people?



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Because, I suspect, you are coming at it from the straight male perspective of 'lesbians are HAWT; gay men are icky'. That's not a perspective that should be privileged (but usually is, so is often thought of as 'just normal' or 'how most people think').

 

Because if we did, then we'd miss out on a hellova lot of media. But Allan's point is still valid - if gay people don't base our entertainment preferences around our sexuality, why should straight people?

 

 

Here is the thing - Regardless about what you do, you cannot force people to change. We live in a free and open society, which allows people to have a diverse set of philosophies. Inorder to do get everyone on the same page, the rise of old-school German paradigms would have to occur. Someone would have to lose their freedoms. Do you really want that? Do you want the implementation of 'thought' police? Do you want people to be murdered because their religious philosophies do not match your sexual lifestyle? What would that accomplish?

 

If you do not want to listen to me, Google "RuPaul’s aggressive tirade in defense of the term “tranny”.



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Seriously, I don't want a million teenage "coming out" stories.  Those kinds of stories are important, but they aren't the only thing I ever want to see.  I want fantasy and sci fi and adventure with characters that happen to be queer.

 

And from what I've observed, since geeks tend to be more on the fringes of society and tend to be more open-minded than the general population, I'd absolutely believe that there is a higher LGBT ratio in the gamer world.  Of course, I know a lot of nerdy bisexuals, so maybe that alters my perception slightly.

 

Geeks are absolutely not more open minded than the general population. You're very lucky with the group of people that you know, but my experience - and especially my friends experience - is pretty much the reverse. And we can see it more generally with how the internet reacts, for example, to people articles about inclusion. 

 

There was, for example, a female artist that had a post about comic book art that included, among other things, a lesson on how to draw realistic breasts (i.e., breasts that do not look like they were 100% implants). It also involved criticism of how the Teen Titans comic is marketed in terms of the covert art (because the TV series was very popular with girls rather than boys, meaning there was a sizeable market to tap into for DC). The end result was a litany of rape and death threats. 

 

Edit: I actually think a lot of geeks are basically the same as jocks when it comes to the attitude toward women, except they think it's OK because of how they were mistreated, vs. thinking it's OK because they were raised entitled.


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Because, I suspect, you are coming at it from the straight male perspective of 'lesbians are HAWT; gay men are icky'. That's not a perspective that should be privileged (but usually is, so is often thought of as 'just normal' or 'how most people think').

 

I do not, and have never, understood the idea of lesbians being as source of sexual desire. Two beautiful women who have absolutely no interest in having sex with me isn't arousing, it's kind of depressing. The fantasy seems to be about bisexual girls. 



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Interesting debates, I ran out of likes to like and support several here.

My backing is having two completely realistic type gay males, two completely realistic type lesbians, and two heterosexual male and females and none bi. :) That way its alot more equal. I know time and money limits things. As it were, most likely already is one gay, one lesbian, two bi and two straight. 2/2/2 type effect instead. As long as they dont have all the males for the women die, lesbians have their happy relationship as I read in here so far. I saw some posting about 2/4/2 though?

I missed Lara being possibly lesbian when playing the game. Though did look forward to her saving her friend and that they could possibly became lovers. Glad the writers are considering it but sucks her friend has to die. :( (friend, gf)

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Here is the thing - Regardless about what you do, you cannot force people to change. We live in a free and open society, which allows people to have a diverse set of philosophies. Inorder to do get everyone on the same page, the rise of old-school German paradigms would have to occur. Someone would have to lose their freedoms. Do you really want that? Do you want the implementation of 'thought' police? Do you want people to be murdered because their religious philosophies do not match your sexual lifestyle? What would that accomplish?

 

If you do not want to listen to me, Google "RuPaul’s aggressive tirade in defense of the term “tranny”.

 

Are you REALLY gonna start comparing LGBT people campaigning for media representation to HITLER? Is pushing for inclusivity REALLY the same as MURDERING people? Is that really where you wanna go with this conversation.

 

No I don't want people to be MURDERED. But then again, no one is murdering straight people for being straight. A helluva lot of LGBT people are still being murdered for being LGBT, though. 

 

I think you should take a step back now and really THINK about what you're trying to say. 


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I saw some posting about 2/4/2 though?

The 2/4/2 is just an adjustment on the 2/2/2 idea by addressing the "NPCs are romancable" debates, in which some are afraid that their orientation will get the short end of the stick by having the Li of that orientation be an NPC and thus less content than if they were a companion. Or that they will only really get one companion to choose from. 

 

In 2/2/2, it breaks down to: 

1 straight male

1 straight female

1 bi male

1 bi female

1 gay male

1 gay female

 

In 2/4/2, it breaks down to:

1 straight male companion

1 straight female companion

1 bi male companion

1 bi male NPC

1 bi female companion

1 bi female NPC

1 gay male companion

1 gay female companion

 

So as you can see, everyone who wants a companion as their LI still gets choice in that matter instead of a choice between a companion and NPC.


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 InExile wrote...

I'm going to address this in a different way, since I feel as if you've dodged every other thing I've said. Let's say I concede: you're totally right, I absolutely advocated for the financial ruin of every single company for the sake of inclusiveness in that post. Even if we say that, on your reading, I completely backtracked (pathetically let's say, again to make you feel better about a catching if that's what you need to hear). So now that we got that out of the way, and you won 1.5 internets, how about we have a substantive discussion? Address the points I raised in my posts.

 

Let's do.

 

 

First off, I'd like to set some definitions up. These aren't Webster by any stretch of the imagination and we can definitely tool and modify them based on any feedback, but for the sake of this convo, let's just entertain the thought that they are somewhat valid. The words in question are "exclusion, non-inclusion and inclusion."

 

Exclusion is the purposeful and intent-driven removal of others based on a certain criteria. I am excluding boys with cooties from my girls only club, as an example. 

 

Non-inclusion is the accidental or non-intentional omission of certain people without purposeful intent of doing so. Me writing a script for a movie that doesn't include any astronauts because I don't normally deal with or entertain thoughts of astronauts in my narratives would be an example of non-inclusive behavior.

 

Inclusion is the deliberate addition of others based on certain criteria. I am going to find five homeless people today and give them a twenty dollar bill, for instance.

 

 

 

Now that we have that out of the way, let's tackle some of these posts.

 

 

 

Let's go out there and include diverse groups, and if that offends people, they frankly deserve it. There are a number of avenues to increase shareholder value, and building your brand among consumer bases is most certainly one of them.

 

You are equating here someone's lack of interest in seeing a certain group in the setting as being "I hate X people." Which can, I don't disagree, be true. But it is not always the case. Someone who didn't have a problem with the Qunari's appearance and culture in DA:O may have taboo's against having a giant horned race which resembles caricatures of the devil, for instance.

 

People may have genuine concerns about having certain sexualities in the games. Maybe they dislike characters being off limits for them because of their designated sexual preference, something Bioware was shooting to assist with instead of further antagonize. Maybe the idea of everyone in your party being bisexual while it seems the rest of the population of the world being hetero-normative by and large is a bit of a jar. Maybe you have lived a sheltered or isolated life and the idea of people of the opposite sex making a pass at you makes you highly uncomfortable, while not, at the same time, making you hate such people with a passion or call them devil spawn. After all, people are uncomfortable with spiders, or snakes, or clowns, or creepy little children and can easily be unnerved by their presence. Is being uneasy with your own sexuality in the face of this anywhere near the same thing? No, but you can't toss everyone who is uneasy with the most extreme of sexual tendencies on the street and say "they frankly deserve it." Being turned off on something is not the same as saying "burn all the [insert designated social group here]."

 

 

And as far as building a brand, there is such as thing as brand relevancy. Does Coke have commercials that say "Do you like soft drinks? No? Deal with it!" Of course not. By the same token, one should not polarize so close to a certain target demographic as to alienate any others, regardless of how much you want members to identify your brand as identifiable.

 

 

 

Secondly, the fact that inclusiveness has the side effect of alienating bigots does not mean that the bottom line will be hurt. Take, for example, TD Canada Trust (or TD Bank in the US). There was a major and public drive (at least in Canada) toward LGBT inclusiveness. The CEO was a strong proponent of equality. The end result was not financial chaos for TD.

 

Yes, you are correct. People, organizations and even companies can be for social progressiveness and not have the world end.

 

Yet you forget one thing - nowhere in the entire TD Canada experience would a customer be expected to be hit on by a gay bank teller during their customer experience. That is the difference between an industry that provides a service and can stand for a cause that the consumer possibly doesn't care about or is even against... and an industry that directly involves their consumer with their cause as part of their service. Again, we are back to the discussion I had earlier, where entertainment needs to entertain first. A large part of that is engaging your audience. 

 

Does Bioware do that with their romances and their myriad of sexual options as a way to bring otherwise disenfranchised LGBT gamers in? Yes. But also being cognoscente that there is another side to the pendulum of people who will be uncomfortable with these options is important. Saying "someone doesn't like these options? Whatever, deal with it" is not true... they DON'T have to deal with it. They can pass up the game entirely and Bioware has lost a sale. And, again, since Bioware has now included more and more sexual relationship options in their games, yet haven't seen a floodgate of new sales that can clearly indicate the LGBT community is embracing it because of this, it is something that a company cannot afford to completely ignore, saying "anyone who has qualms can just not buy the game."

 

 

 

Thirdly, catering to a group of bigots is an easy way to toxify your brand, especially as society moves in a more progressive direction. Sure, Bioware could cater to homophobes. But even in the United States, that's becoming a serious imagine problem for business as homophones are being lumped in with racists. No one is about to suggest making a movie to draw in the "KKK" crowd.

 

But that's where our definitions come into play.

 

Being Exclusive is something that the, as you point out, KKK does. They say "no to anyone who does not look like me." Any video game that did that would be insane.

 

But, on the other hand... being non-inclusive? That's a whole different bag. Because the past 7 Call of Duty games main lead are played by a straight white male doesn't mean I'm supporting the KKK. It gains none of the negative, harsh and toxic press such an endorsement includes. But it's not inclusive.

 

Bioware, on the other hand, works to be inclusive, including people of multiple sexualities and also working on expanding beyond the "everyone in magic worlds and space is white" concepts that seem prevalent in all media. This is both their prerogative and is also admirable.

 

 But with Bioware working to be inclusive, no one who is non-inclusive is suffering. There aren't protests or boycotts or marches in the street when commercials for other developers air and they show clips of games with white guys saving damsels in distress. At least, not to the point where it affects the bottom line. 

 

Does that mean Bioware should give up? Of course not. But it does mean that branding themselves as the "so progressive and open-minded developer and if you can't deal with it, here's the door" is the right move? I don't think it's a foolproof plan, I'll put it that way.

 

 

 

There was some nutter in the romance thread a while ago - whose post has since been deleted - that talked about how Bioware needs "strong heterosexual romances" or whatever, with damsels and distress and vulnerable women. Bioware shouldn't shame this loon, or target him, or otherwise mock or address his existence. All that I said was that the extent to which it is financially viable, Bioware should completely not cater to him.

 

Without a doubt. But no company spending tens or hundreds of millions of dollars creating a product to be enjoyed by millions of people should ever cater to one person. And I wouldn't think it would be possible to truly shame him as a company, honestly. At least outside of a public forum posting by a dev, which is ultimately a small potatoes type of measure in the grand scheme of things.

 

But, let me ask this, then... if Bioware has developed a brand as the "omni-sexual romance RPG maker," would this guy even consider buying the game? Or would he go pick up something that is more non-inclusive and doesn't upset his personal convictions as a piece of entertainment to spend his free time? I'd say there is a strong chance he would spend his dollar elsewhere if he truly believed that Bioware had become a developer that had nothing he would enjoy. However, for all we know, there is the option to play a straight male with a heterosexual romance who can save the damsel in distress in DA:I. Heck, the maleHawke-Isabella romance went this route for DA2 in a matter of speaking when you save her from the Arishok. And given the presence of all bi-sexual party members, that was arguably Bioware's most open-minded game to date in terms of sexuality.

 

 

 

Take, for example, the Morrigan romance. It doesn't do any of these things. Morrigan is not a damsel in distress. She always leaves the protagonist to pursue her agenda. You can only romance her on her terms, if you're willing to give up your life in Ferelden (or wherever) pursue her goals. That's certainly "excluding" this type of loon.

 

Yet you are able to pursue a straight romance with Leliana, where you can save her from the assassination attempts of Marjorie. Is that a perfect "damsel in distress" model? No. But the point is there is a chance this guy COULD actually find what he was looking for in a DA game. Yet if Bioware has a brand that actively repels him from even trying, then it is a lost sale.

 

Bioware does have a brand now where the LGBT community is, in some way shape of form, aware of the options these games offer. Could more be made aware? Sure. But is Bioware best served working to advertise this fact even more if it results in misconceptions among their larger fanbase, when in reality their games could work for both people? Or is it wise to say "yeah, a gay guy is going to hit on your male character - grow a thicker skin or there's the door" to the world? Which leads into...

 

 

 

Or another example, people who ask for sexuality toggles so they can literally toggle away the gay. If not including a gay toggle alienates these people, then again, too bad.

 

Is this the absolute worst suggestion in the world? Imagine if it was implemented in DA2... every party member was bisexual in DA2. Meaning every character was equally open to both sexes for romantic affairs. There is no "neutering" of the character inherently, where they become a sexless eunuch if the toggle was active. Anders would still have his homosexual relationship with Karl, Isabella would still make sexually suggestive comments to every woman that has banter and the world keeps turning... it just would not direct the material at the player directly.

 

Is "too bad" a good mindset to take on this? Again, it doesn't bother me - I have never wandered into a ninjamance in Bioware games, of any sexuality. Then again, I'm not a huge fan of romance content in general in games. But if you remove the social context of the request and just see it as "hey we can provide this optional feature to people who do want it and give other people who don't want it the option to opt out," how is that so bad of a concept? 



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The 2/4/2 is just an adjustment on the 2/2/2 idea by addressing the "NPCs are romancable" debates, in which some are afraid that their orientation will get the short end of the stick by having the Li of that orientation be an NPC and thus less content than if they were a companion. Or that they will only really get one companion to choose from.  In 2/2/2, it breaks down to: 1 straight male1 straight female1 bi male1 bi female1 gay male1 gay female In 2/4/2, it breaks down to:1 straight male companion1 straight female companion1 bi male companion1 bi male NPC1 bi female companion1 bi female NPC1 gay male companion1 gay female companion So as you can see, everyone who wants a companion as their LI still gets choice in that matter instead of a choice between a companion and NPC.


Ah, thanks. Yes that is a better outcome. :) I like your post.
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Ah, thanks. Yes that is a better outcome. :) I like your post.

Thank you and glad you liked it. Sadly a lot of people criticize my idea by thinking it's "too many romances", so it's always good to get positive responses to ideas.   ^_^



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I'm surprised this thread is still up they normally go into anarchy, name calling and generally being rather unpleasant XXD

but ill put my two cents in,

 

Why should it matter if there are a even number of same sex romances? we ( at least I don't ) choose a game based on if I can get my male character in to the pants of another male character(or vies versa) , I chooses the game on story and some other things.  Pulse I don't choose my PC romances based on gender, my male Hawke likes Anders because of who he is, Same with some of my other characters.



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I'm surprised this thread is still up they normally go into anarchy, name calling and generally being rather unpleasant XXD

but ill put my two cents in,

 

Why should it matter if there are a even number of same sex romances? we ( at least I don't ) choose a game based on if I can get my male character in to the pants of another male character(or vies versa) , I chooses the game on story and some other things.  Pulse I don't choose my PC romances based on gender, my male Hawke likes Anders because of who he is, Same with some of my other characters.

 

Well, we all play games for different reasons. I am not ashamed to say that the number one reason I play and recommend the Dragon Age games instead of some other fantasy RPG is, yes, because I can play as a gay man and romance another man. I have lesbian friends who want to play as a lesbian and romance another woman. I am happy to be able to recommend DA to them as one of the very very few games out there that you can do that in.

 

There is nothing wrong with that. If you play games for different reasons, that's totally fine. But I won't rip on you for your reasons, why judge me for mine?

 

EDIT: I know it's not... kosher or really accepted to 'admit' that you play the Dragon Age games specifically because of the romantic content, and a lot of us get defensive when people accuse us of doing so like it's a bad thing. But I think it's important to be honest and truthful and unashamed. I play the Dragon Age games because they let me be gay and have gay romances. If they didn't, I might still play them, but I wouldn't be as much of a fan and I wouldn't tell every gamer I know about how great they are. Actually, if they didn't have gay/lesbian romances, I probably wouldn't have ever heard of the games because I started playing them only after other LGBT friends recommended them to me because of the gay romance content. So... take from that what you will, I guess.


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I apologies I didn't mean for it to come out how it sounded


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Anders hits on you whether you are male or female, and yet people only ever bring up him hitting on male Hawke in discussions of sexuality.  I wonder why.  :rolleyes:


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I apologies I didn't mean for it to come out how it sounded

 

It's cool. Thanks for apologizing. :)

 

I understand that if you don't have the same perspective as I do, that you might not understand why the romances are important. 

 

I tend to get defensive about this stuff, but it's not cuz I think you (or people who express their thoughts like you) are bad people. We all have plenty of room to learn and grow, so... yeah. 

 

Thanks for listening. :)


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Is "too bad" a good mindset to take on this? Again, it doesn't bother me - I have never wandered into a ninjamance in Bioware games, of any sexuality. Then again, I'm not a huge fan of romance content in general in games. But if you remove the social context of the request and just see it as "hey we can provide this optional feature to people who do want it and give other people who don't want it the option to opt out," how is that so bad of a concept? 

 

Because I never want any kind of media--especially one that has built a reputation on inclusion--to send the signal that a "no ******" button is okay.  Queer characters should be walking around just like queer people walk around in the real world.  Even if the player chooses not to interact with them, not to romance them, not to go anywhere near them, they should not be able to press a button and make them all disappear.  

 

The bisexual LIs of DA2 may effectively work the same, in that a straight character can be oblivious to their orientations and pretend they are straight.  But they are still canonically bisexual.  Their bisexuality does not disappear if you play as straight.  They still exist.


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Not a problem. :)



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Anders hits on you whether you are male or female, and yet people only ever bring up him hitting on male Hawke in discussions of sexuality.  I wonder why.  :rolleyes:

Some of it seems to be because for people who play as female, those players experienced that in Awakening. 



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I use it cuz I don't like Ferris XXD that's the only reason XXD



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Because I never want any kind of media--especially one that has built a reputation on inclusion--to send the signal that a "no ******" button is okay.  Queer characters should be walking around just like queer people walk around in the real world.  Even if the player chooses not to interact with them, not to romance them, not to go anywhere near them, they should not be able to press a button and make them all disappear.  

 

The bisexual LIs of DA2 may effectively work the same, in that a straight character can be oblivious to their orientations and pretend they are straight.  But they are still canonically bisexual.  Their bisexuality does not disappear if you play as straight.  They still exist.

 

I could not agree with this any  more.  Absolutely dead on!



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The bisexual LIs of DA2 may effectively work the same, in that a straight character can be oblivious to their orientations and pretend they are straight.  But they are still canonically bisexual.  Their bisexuality does not disappear if you play as straight.  They still exist.

Point out where it is stated that Fenris and Merrill are canonically bisexual please?