I think the whole "blaming Anora for the lack of child" instead of even glancing at the problem being Cailan is the 'sexist' part. Especially when there was the probability that Cailan was monkeying around without issue himself. That's almost understandable though considering that's an opinion held by many close minded people in regards to that situation in our own history. He wouldn't have been the first. Not excusable, but understandable
As for Isolde. That biatch is a fine piece of work. Only Howe stirs as much ire in me as she does, so she's second on my list of 'most reviled Origins characters'. Branka is only behind her because her obsession was caused by an overwhelming desire to help her people. Vaughan's depradations were limited in scope toward the females in the alienage, so not nearly as devastating as wiping out an entire village (which is what happens if you refuse to help Teagan and the militia). And as much as I hate Loghain, at least it could be argued he too, is doing all these horrible things for 'a good cause'. Isolde cares only for her family, and seems oblivious to the pain she's caused by her deception. I love triggering the dialogue lines where Teagan lays into her for it. Selfish b*tch caused all that misery on behalf of her own kid but lacks the tiniest empathy for an orphaned child.
ugh don't get me started on her...
Anora talks about how Cailan had his relationship or affairs if you are planning to stay with alistair while marrying him off to anora. She wants you to hide like a dirty little mistress, which while it is understandable to some degree, she is doing this only for political gain on her part, so suck it up lady. It's a political marriage and he will be with his true love whenever he wants. But yeah, Cailan had his affairs.
I love getting Teagan to lay into her also. Oh, the fun of it. I wish there was a slap option. I would totally slap her or punch her in the face. Truly.
And as you say when you look at each character, there are levels of nasty. At least loghain really believed he was saving ferelden. He really wanted to keep his country safe. I can always get behind that ideal though I do not like how he did it. At least his wasn't a selfish motive. It was about making sure Orlais wasn't going to reoccupy the land and start raping the women and killing the citizens. He didn't even believe there was a blight. Meanwhile, Isolde, the biatch of Orlais lets half of Redcliffe get slaughtered while she protects her demon possessed son in the castle. Then she comes out and grabs sweet teagan to give the demon one more body to kill.... and teagan is the nicest most honorable and selfless, caring noble we have met aside from couslands. Yeah, killing her really is fun. Doing the mind screw on alistiar about it is even better .... 'I think it went well.....' or whatever the line is.
I'm no fan of anora. I believe loghain when he basically says she staged all that drama of the rescue. Nobody was going to hurt her. Howe wouldn't because loghain would lop off his head for it. And loghain already knows what she is but still there's no reason that he would harm her. He was in control until the warden comes along. But I will let her be queen to run off with alistair if I am not a noble aiming to be queen or a city elf who believes he can make their lives better (most don't as they think she is too shrewd to allow him to have any power or say over how they are treated). So queen she stays...