But does it make it okay for female soldiers to be referred to as a slu✝? Thrice in the trilogy even. (goddamn profanity filter)
It's kind of fitting at the beginning of the Archangel mission. Shepard also gets the opportunity for a red interrupt at that point.
I guess, it all depends on how your PC is able to react to what's said to her. Not what's actually said.
But does this still make her an equal to BroShep? ... I don't think BroShep was ever being referred to as manwhore in-game.
Look at real life. Men are shamed in different ways that are equally primitive. Such as calling them them gay. Happened to me a few times IRL. I'm pointing it out, since it says a whole lot more about the one insulting than the one on the receiving end. I'm not gay, but I don't really care if being called gay.
Oh, and could you point me to the horny Turian? I never ever encountered him in all my playthroughs.