With this in mind, I wonder, do the female posters on the BSN feel it would be more difficult if your favorite LI ended up not being available to you? Is there a similar feeling that, because your demographic is ignored by most other sources, it's harder to not be dissapointed by not getting what seemed like a real opportunity here? For example, if a popular speculated LI (think Solas or Cullen) was the "homosexual" offering, how would you feel about it?
I try not to be obsessive about BioWare romances. Companions do not simply exist for romance and I enjoy companion friendships. I wish characters like Wynne had more fans. I sympathize for the writers who put a lot of time and effort into a character to only be greeted with an overwhelming 'But can I romance them?!'
At the same time, Jade Empire was the first time my female PC was able to save the kingdom and get the princess. It felt *wonderful*. I became a fan of BioWare because they were willing to give me that.
It is something I wish for whenever a new BioWare game is announced. It is something I anticipate constantly when talking about female characters. I am pro-playersexual because I am greedy. If there's a female companion or NPC available for romance, then I want as much opportunity to do so as someone playing a male PC.
Male love interests don't interest me, but I don't see any virtue in making them gay. I'd like to see gay characters, but I'd rather they be part of the world instead of same-sex attraction only existing when the PC is involved.