True. I was paraphrasing. His romance surprised me the first time. Then I was like "I'm doing everything that makes you like me and you're playing hard to get?!" Then I ran into Zev and was like "Alistair who?"
Unless I am playing male, I'll usually get the opposite.
I'll just choose the nice, non-flirty leading on dialogue and roll with it if I'm going to romance someone else/no one at all. Yet I must be triggering /something/ in his dialogue because I'll still get ninjamanced occasionally.
Leliana still takes the cake on ninjamancing in the end.
One reason I like the icons - I know for a fact the heart means flirty/love/relationship stuff. Some of her dialogue I took as just two good friends talking not, uh, romantic by any means,
Anyway, there's one thing I liked about being ninjmanced by him once I fondly remember. I was playing a female Dalish elf who was going to romance Zev because she generally disliked humans, spare a few, with Alistair being one of them. She just saw him as a decent human. I chose the nicer options with him, none of the lovey dovey things. Even the lamppost in winter conversation, she was fairly blunt.
But then I accidentally (
) clicked on him while in Wonders of Thedas. I got an auto conversation (paraphrased) "Hey, I just wanted to tell you thanks for being such a good friend and, I uh, love you. THERE, I SAID IT. *headhang*"
I was completely confused at this, but at the some time something clicked in my head that was like "this damn game just wrote itself for me" and she ended up romancing him. It just felt like it fit so well because it was so unexpected.
And that is one of my few DA stories and a reason I love them. /longpostislong
Poor Zev. 