Yeah, I'm pretty much trying to rework my whole backstory for this. I could say the reason the First wasn't the special snowflake spy was because they and only they were the one to go all possessed and kill clan members. Maybe I'll keep the casualties to a minimum, but still including her father, so the other elves would still have a proper reason to not be as fearful of mages as her. And she still could have left the clan for a while, before rejoining the same one if the Keeper survived. I don't think she likes the Keeper at all. Certainly doesn't trust her. Why the hell are they spying anyway?! Yeah, I'll be okay.
I'm... going to have to strike an entire family tree. Although that was my fault. :S I got carried away and ended up making a family tree. ...within four generations. (It started with, oh hey, my Inquisitor has two siblings. And two uncles on her mother's side. And an aunt on her father's side. And two more uncles. Ohhh, and some of them are married and they have x amount of kids...)
Well, actually, it says that we have a lot of relatives who are involved with the Chantry or the Templars in some way, so I suppose I won't have to get rid of all of them. But I was rather attached to the idea of my rogue being the middle child, and then her older brother being a mage, and her younger sister training to be a warrior. But if she's the youngest... well, I suppose I could turn the younger sister into the elder sibling, so I suppose they would be heir to the family or whatever. Oh wait! I'm pretty sure that WoT says that the ruler of Ostwick is called a Teryn. And I can make the older mage brother into a cousin she was close to when they were children and that's why she's sympathetic towards mages. And my rogue was already disillusioned with the Chantry, so I can make this work. Yeah. Yeah.