Yes, I was a disappointed to find out that Cullen was race-gated. After hearing that Solas was race-gated, I thought for sure that Cullen wouldn't be because I didn't think they'd do it to straight females again after ME3. After all, if they made Cullen gated, too, my thought process was that the there were going to be some races that were going to be left with a lack of choice except for Iron Bull. Hearing that they gave us Blackwall doesn't make it much better because that's a bit like giving us DA:I's version of Thane IMO. Yeah, he's equal opportunity, but he might as well be terminally ill, too.
Those of you who are finding out you can't do what you envisioned, you have my sympathies. I likely wasn't going to play a dwarf or qunari ... well, maybe a qunari eventually, but I've been stuck in the romance situation with ME3, and it bites.