That has happened in every Bioware game I've ever played! I will meticulously create my character only for her to look completely different in-game. >_< No problem at all! I've been really enjoying seeing everyone's Quizzies.
I won't be able to play for a few more weeks so it helps pass the time. I hope people start posting more videos, too! Spoilers do not bother me at all.
I'm the same with spoilers, it actually makes me look forward to moments in the game more.

Especially seeing all these great Cullen ones!

Simultaneous PTs - Dalish warrior and Human mage (and possibly a dwarf rogue with them).
I've planned for my human mage, Dalish rogue and I really want to try out the Qunari too. I definitely plan to have a lot of them, plus I'll need to role a male character to try the other romance options. So much to do