I'd suggest not flirting with Cullen after Skyhold,although the other romances become unavailable only after you commit to a relationship so as long as you don't have your inquisitor confess her feelings(aka interrupted kiss scene) you're fine.
Can I start a Solas romance and still flirt with Cullen? Like, are the flirt options there?
I realize I could ask this in the Solas thread but I'm trying to avoid his romance spoilers.
I can agree with this. I've forced myself to take a few days break from writing....because real life, that's what they call it at least, still needs to exist outside of work.
Real life? Dear goodness, I had forgotten what that looks like.
Is DAI not real life?
Now that is a terrifying thought.
Thousands of cullenites after my head for getting him wrong.
^ All writers biggest fear right there. You just have to take a chance and throw caution to the wind, haha.
Real life? Dear goodness, I had forgotten what that looks like.
Is DAI not real life?
I don't....I really don't know anymore >.<
I don't....I really don't know anymore >.<
I have that same problem
I can agree with this. I've forced myself to take a few days break from writing....because real life, that's what they call it at least, still needs to exist outside of work.
I'm a therapist! I feel bad for my clients, honestly.
I'm determined to give that a try at some point. I do adore Solas, but I know myself well enough to definitively say that I have not even begun to get my fill of Ser Rutherford yet. There is no denying those eyes...or that grin...or dem thighs (dayum
).
LOVE THIS! This is how I pictured their life in Skyhold. I don't want kids irl...my fur-babies are my kids...so when everybody was talking about "little Cullens" walking around I was picturing them with a herd of fur-babies lol.
LOL Agree! I must admit... this was one of my favorite 12 days of Cullen. LOL 
I think if I made an elf inquisitor I could romance Solas. Bc I picture my human Mage to be exclusive to Cullen. Although I want to romance Blackwall at someone and.. Well Idk how I'm going to do that if my elf belongs to Solas and my human Cullen.
(I say, despite essentially only managing to play as a human mage so far, and therefore I am incredibly hypocritical)
I'm a therapist! I feel bad for my clients, honestly.
Mental Health Counselor, here! The poor poor world, hahaha.
Yeah, Alistair is no Henry viii. He won't be flaunting his mistress around the court and he may not love Anora but I don't doubt that he respects her and it is against his nature to be even slightly cruel to anyone but Morrigan.
True, Anora's one request if you arrange it openly with her is that you be discrete and not embarrass her. But still, announcing that with Leliana kind of rubs in salt for anyone with an Alistair's mistress PT.
BTW, has anyone seen a Queen Cousland political marriage with a Zevran lover PT? Just wondering how they handled that one?
Can I start a Solas romance and still flirt with Cullen? Like, are the flirt options there?
I realize I could ask this in the Solas thread but I'm trying to avoid his romance spoilers.
I don't believe so. The only things that shut off the Cullen romance are the lyrium thing and starting a relationship with someone else. So I've heard the heart options go away once you start with someone else.
Mental Health Counselor, here! The poor poor world, hahaha.
Mental Health here too! The world is so screwed. Heh.
Mental Health Counselor, here! The poor poor world, hahaha.
I don't believe so. The only things that shut off the Cullen romance are the lyrium thing and starting a relationship with someone else. So I've heard the heart options go away once you start with someone else.
Dangit, that's what I thought. I just noticed that I had the option to flirt with Cass after I started a romance with Dorian on my last playthrough but at the same time could not flirt with Harding. So, wasn't sure how it all worked. Thanks!
My solution to the Cullen/Solas question is to run simultaneous PTs (I almost always prefer to have multiple PTs anyway so when I hit a frustrating bit in the game, I can go jump into a different point in the game, so it works out well for making sure I get through both romances.) Then either male quizzies or female dwarves or qunari for the other romances. Of course, I also really like dwarves and non-qun qunari.
Is Cullen/Josie a thing when you romance someone else because I was thinking about romancing Solas but I don't know... 
I might be a bit jealous. xd
Is Cullen/Josie a thing when you romance someone else because I was thinking about romancing Solas but I don't know...
Is Cullen/Josie a thing when you romance someone else because I was thinking about romancing Solas but I don't know...
Not a thing. (Which is going to make my Cadash/Bull, Adaar/Blackwall, Lavellan/Solas, m!Trevelyan/Dorian, and evil!Trevelyan/??? playthroughs a lot easier, especially combined with Cullen still thinking fondly of Amell/Surana. Original post-DA:O headcanon survives another day!!) I think I have the opposite problem of a lot of people here, though, which is that the last thing I'd want is to flirt with one of my PCs' LIs with a different PC! Once I've got a romance set, if I want to play through it again I've got to use the same PC again.
I've made an elf mage for romancing Solas, but I don't know if I have the wilpower! Definitely MUST NOT click on Cullen flirts, or I won't be able to stop 
I'm starting to think a Blackwall and Solas PT just aren't going to happen. Serious kudos to those of you who can. My last two attempts ended with Cullen. It's starting to feel like DAO and Alistair all over again.
Having to wait for my new laptop to come in before I can play again. My PC wants me to murder it with the 15 avg fps I've been working with. I. Can't. Take. It. Anymore.
For those of you trying to do other romances, IDK how you do it. I know I would be completely incapable of playing another femQuizitor that does not romance Cullen. It's just not possible. My next playthrough will have to be M!quizzy/Dorian
I had to play male just to romance someone else. Dorian was worth it. still everytime I saw Cullen I died a little inside.
I've made an elf mage for romancing Solas, but I don't know if I have the wilpower! Definitely MUST NOT click on Cullen flirts, or I won't be able to stop
I did that for my second PT. Third time I managed to seduce Solas and it was well worth it. I honestly can't decide which romance I liked better they are both sooo good in different ways.
Zevran, Fenris, Zevran, Fenris
I am trying very hard to break my usual cycle of romancing the same person over and over
Race/gender gating has helped.
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