True - but I kind of need to believe it's not possible, since I'm married
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Ahahahaaaa

That reminds me of my Mom... She always tells my Dad: "Honey, you're the love of my life, but if Tom Cruise ever comes knocking on my door, I'll drop you like a hot potato."

There are insanely good looking men who are sweet hearts. Also, some good looking men either were born that way or were in the making ( I.e. the chubby guy who went to the gym and became hot). So... I'm sure they are hot guys hot there who are sweet. But I understand your point.
Speaking of which, I saw a Blackwall look alike yesterday . couldn't go stalker mode and snap a pic
And there are guys who are gorgeous, and absolutely oblivious about it. Those are such sweethearts 
It's entirely possible not to use them on Normal or Casual. I used them a bit but not all of the time on Normal and they didn't die too often.
I have this thing where I cannot have anybody die. And the fewer potions I use, the better I feel about the game I am playing. So, even on Normal, I will be quite tactical. Yeah... I love Bioware games primarily for the story, but if combat wasn't fun, I'd probably get bored and never finish things