The Fade:
Upon your return to Skyhold everyone seems to comment about this event in some form or another. However with Cullen (especially if you’re in a romance with him) says nothing at all about it. You are just thrown into his quest. Don’t get me wrong that quest is a pinnacle point in your relationship with him, but it could have been delayed until after you spoke to him upon your return.
If we look back in DA2, when Hawke lost her/his Mom your romance visited you to express his/her feelings-offer you some comfort.
Granted losing a parent is nowhere near as emotional as coming back from The Fade, but it’s still an emotional moment for The Inquisitor.
The Developers’ missed a huge opportunity here, especially for those in a romance with Cullen. If you look back in an early part of the game after “Hushed Whispers/Champions of the Just,” you have a conversation with Josephine.
Josephine needs to send a report to The Chantry about if the inquisition supports your claims about being The Herald of Andraste. By choosing, “What would you say?” Josephine responds, “If Cullen, Leliana, Cassandra and I could agree, I could answer that.”
If it was not made obvious before this conversation it should be made crystal clear that Cullen does in fact have his own opinions on what he thinks you are. Coming back after The Fade and finding out the truth could or could not have changed Cullen’s views.
I for one find it mind boggling that the developers’ overlooked a key part.
Developer 1: “We should put in a cut scene about The Inquisitor coming back from The Fade and speaking to Cullen-especially if the player is in a romance with him. It is after all an important part and it would make sense.”
Developer 2: “Nah. (Thinks for a moment) Oh! I got it! Instead of using our time and resources for that, how about we make a quest to where the player has to walk a Druaffalo or Halla back to the owner?”
Developer 2: “Hmm. I like it! But let’s put both of those in game. I suppose adding in the conversation I suggested would be silly.’
Developer 1: "No, it would not be silly, it is silly."
A Gift:
I for am frustrated and annoyed how you cannot give Cullen a gift. Oh sure people who romance, Cassandra, Iron bull, Dorian or whomever else can give these people gifts. However you cannot give Cullen a gift. W.T.F.?
Yes, Cullen gives your character a gift, but it does not mean you cannot return the favor. It is not that difficult to come up with ideas on what to give Cullen as a gift much less when to give it to him.
After the quest “Perseverance” a quest pop-up, I don’t know; let’s call it, “Commanding the heart.” You’ll be given a quest to get Cullen a gift. You have a choice; you can either make him a new sword or a new shield. Go to a merchant in Val R. and purchase the schematic. Go back to Skyhold and make the shield or the sword however you want. As a bonus on the shield or sword it will say, “Though darkness closes, I am shielded by love.” Go to Cullen, click on him and a cut scene plays out.
Hell as it is now, I have to head-cannon, the "Sparring Ring" is a gift to Cullen from my Inquisitor. <Shakes head>.
Information on a dialogue option:
During the conversation with Cullen, right before sexy time, you have three options, two of which are to break off the romance. By click on the option to “Choose a future with Cullen” the information box about this dialogue choice says, “Start a romance with Cullen.” Um, why do I want to start a romance with Cullen when we have been together several game moments back?
I’ve seen videos on YouTube of the other romances. Pulling Iron Bull’s romance out of the lot, I noticed the text box above the dialogue says, “Commit to a relationship with Iron Bull.” So why could those of us who romanced Cullen get the same, “Commit to a romance with Cullen” during this stage?
I for one was completely confused after sexy time if Cullen and my Inquisitor were now locked in the relationship or there was a chance to break it off. Granted, I had no intention of breaking off the relationship, but, I still wanted to know if it was possible.
Eventually I got the answer by asking people, but I should not have needed to if the text information about the dialogue was clear on what I was choosing.
Yes, this may sound like a minor issue to some, but for me, it’s annoying.
Again, the Cullen romance was/is good, but it does not mean it was without some major issues.