Wait, what? I'm confused now.
The others said it was the inquisitor who makes her feelings known first, and that Cullen is reluctant at first to pursue the relationship. Is that not true?
Well, it's hard to say without you seeing the romance. Because she's the PC, she's the one who initiates the conversation. "Let's talk about us." But, he's the one who moves them into the physical zone rather assertively, IMO. Twice. In fact, the first time, she almost wusses out... and he closes the deal. But then, she's the one who initiates all the woo breaks. I kind of see them both taking the initiative in their relationship, at different times. But, Cullen does state his reluctance, saying that he wasn't sure it was a good idea because she's the Inquisitor.
Aghgh. Okay. I'm not sure what to do now. I'm afraid of writing him ooc. In all three games he is so reserved that I was kind of going by that to guess how he would be in a relationship (or at least the start of one). I'm at a point now that I don't know how to write a sexually aggressive Cullen who flirts up and down without being prompted lol I don't know if I can write that.
I would *not* call him sexually aggressive. He is reserved... but knows what he wants. It's all very ... gentlemanly, and yet sexy. TBH, he's the same as always, so just go with what seems right to you.