Wow, so I'm not the only one! I always kept Solas at a distance because I never trusted him, even before I found out the surprise ending.
I don't think I'll ever be able to romance him with a character - though I think I will see if I can replicate kalalala's polyamory bug!
I could not bring myself to romance anyone but Cullen.
Solas: Uh just no and hell no. Watching my husband do this romance, it was just depressing. I had to reload some Cullen Romance scene saves, just to "wash" out the depression. Not to mention I have little interest in playing an elf.
Blackwall: If my father was in his 40s and had less meat on his bones, Blackwall would look too close to him. Not to mention that whole "Batman appearance" and screwing in an open barn is just plain creepy.
As for the rest, well, Cassandra and Dorian are out because I have no intent playing a male character-ever. Sera is just too young and crazy, like a teenager. Josie is as dull as a butter knife. Iron Bull, uh no and no. He is the male version of Isabella. I don't need my character running to the healer every-time they have sex.
If I missed anyone, well they are not important enough to even bother with.
I'm addicted to the Cullen romance and have no interest in my character doing any other romance. Hell, she does not even flirt with anyone other then Cully-Wully.