The rational part of my brain agrees, the other part screams out "NO!!" probably because I personally dislike Anora.
I do think they can come to a common understand and even a companionship/friendship/affection but personally I don't see it as becoming a romantic love. I can't say I ever really believed she was "in love" with Cailan, I don't know she is capable, and more so that she feels she has the right & training to rule Feraldan. Maybe if we were given more of a background & story to her, I might have a different opinion (I am also aware I could be totally biased against her, but the whole power hungry thing rubbed me wrong way in DAO)
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Hmm at first I hated Anora, I saw her as an opponent that must be crushed & power hungry. But then it's the way the game chooses to present her to us, it's already heavily biased. Thinking about it over and over, in the end I actually like her & her attitude. Here's a BAMF gal who's strong and capable, who knows her strength and weakness and how to use the best of them. And she knows her job. She knows she is a good queen, she has the capacity and the brain and the gal and the strength for it. She also knows that having Alistair as King beside her will also be something good. She's not that power hungry (IMO) when she accepts easily to marry Alistair in a union, she simply does her job. She IS queen at the moment, it's her job to ensure the political stability of Ferelden as best she can. And the best she can do is either by rule alone or join force with Al.
TBH, I really think (if we RP without knowing the ending) it's REALLY risky to put Alistair alone on the throne, without Anora (or probably Cousland). He'll just be another puppet of Eamon & I don't agree with many of Eamon's point of views, I really think Eamon pulling the strings at the back will not do a service to Ferelden in the mid/long term. I'd still prefer to see Anora on the throne than to see Eamon controlling at the back.
And actually I don't even think in term of romantic love. In the end, romantic love can only brings you so far. It can end quite easily if the two people involved does not have the same vision, mission & goals in life. I think there's quite a number of people who choose to pursue what they need to do in life rather than romance, if it's a binary choice. Anora & Alistair not being in love at the first time during their joined force isn't necessarily a bad thing. It's a political union, remember?
Talking about power hungry, I still feel that if Anora is power hungry then all Cousland queens & kings are... even worse. They are Grey Wardens, remember? Alistair's on the throne might eventually be justified as necessary to end the Blight, probably (I'm not convinced that much TBH), but a Cousland queen/king consort abandoning the Grey Warden to seize the throne is even more power hungry than Anora trying to keep her place as Queen.