Sincere apologies to the 99.9% of non-Amell/Surana shipping posters in this thread who either don't bring up their dislike of it at all, or don't bring up their dislike of it unless provoked by other ship hate. I feel like a broken record but I keep coming back here in the last few weeks and finding more of this.
I'll take you at your word that such people exist; I have literally never seen anyone say that, and I actively seek out that pairing whereas you avoid it. Everyone I know in fandom who made fanart / made fanfic / daydreamed of Cullen with their Warden also enjoyed his DA:I romance with the Inquisitor.* All most of us want is to be able to mention liking Cullen x mage!Warden around other Cullen fans without immediately hearing "eww power imbalance" or "I'm so glad she's gone in my continuity so Cullen's heart can belong only to Quizzy", and in my experience, that's not the case in most fan forums. (Even the positivity week had a post that included a discussion of the poster's dislike of it.)
If you don't like it when you feel that people are slighting your ships, a good place to start is avoiding doing the same to them.
Based on how often you bring it up, I get the impression that it really bothers you on some visceral level. All I can offer is that it might help to look for the positive: if Cullen had treated the female mage warden the same way he treats the male mage warden (friendly, but nothing more), he wouldn't have prompted the huge fan response he did, meaning he might not have been so memorable to the writers that they wanted to include him in DA2. And if he hadn't been in DA2, he wouldn't be around for us to romance in DA:I.
And if anyone has ideas for how I can stop being viscerally bothered by other people hating on it, I'm always open to PMs.
* I'd say I like them about equally and I refer to both as OTPs, which is probably misusing the term but whatever. I prefer him with my Inquisitor for a few practical reasons, and I identify more strongly with my Inquisitor, but all of the fanart and fanfic that lured me here to discuss Cullen had him either with the Warden or Hawke. I feel the need to mention that because I'm sincerely not sure whether I'm one of the people whose motives you're misinterpreting in your above post.
I was going to write something clever, but then I understood that you've already written everything that I could add.
As I mentioned before, I never paired my Amell with Cullen, but that's because how I roleplayed her - painfully obvious to any flirting and romantic feelings. But I have nothing against this pairing.
If I may add something about DAO. I'm not surprised former pairing got fans. There's something about forbidden crushes and hidden feelings that just makes people (and me) go aaawwww.
Also, In my opinion Cullen's infatuation with female mage was definitely better handled that Tamlen and Dalish warden situation. But that's just me.
If they gave me the option to change one thing about DA:I, I used to think I might pick "implementing an approval system for the advisors", but the more I think about it the more obvious it is that including a short bit with the PCs at or just before the Conclave would be better. It wouldn't even have to be as long as the origins in Origins. I would love to hang out with Adaar's mercenary company or Trevelyan's family. Assuming PC race options are here to stay (which precludes Hawke-level knowledge of your background), I really hope they go back to that in DA4.
I would be happy if we got more dialogue options to 'specify' our background. I think the only instances where you have that chance is dialogue with Josephine in Haven and your feelings about Free Marches during talk with Cassandra.
Though I would be very happy to have DAO-styled prologue.





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