One of my favorite Hawkes, Orson, I played as being mostly bemused that everyone was putting all this power into his hands. By the end of the game, his whole family was dead (except Gamlem, and Charade, if they count) and he was just done with everything. So he sided with the mages and ran away with Isabela. He was the closest I ever felt to a DA2 character.
Yeah, my Hawke was feeling pretty much Done w/the whole thing as well. I remeber a PT where I flirted w/sum characters, but never really sealed the deal. Then Leandra happened, and the only one that came see after my Hawke was Aveline. And even that was quite brusque. Just a "if you need to talk, you know where I am" kinda thing.
That's a PT where my Hawke felt totally alone. I wish they had (and hope they have more integral friendship interactions in DAI) at least showed a few of your companions coming to see after you at such a time. I mean, if it was reversed you know Hawke woulda been expected to show up and console the npc.
Maybe a flag for certain companions you take alot, and have them show up at the house. They didn't even have to say anything. Just sitting there w/Hawke in silence woulda meant alot.
Well, after that---I head canoned that my Hawke, who was usually sarcastic, became much more aggressive.