You guys are talking about so many awesome thing! Argh catch up!
Ok in regards to us getting lucky with Cullen still being alive I think Cullen somehow manages to be one of the most lucky AND unlucky characters at the same time. For example,
1.captured and tortured by demons and watched all his friends die-Unlucky
Only one in the entire group of Templars to survive the ordeal. Lucky!
2. Sets after recruit who has been possessed by a demon and rescued just in time by Hawke and co-Lucky!
Recruits in his ranks are now getting possessed by demons. Unlucky.
3. Goes to Kirkwall and finds a commander that agrees with his position on mages, values and promotes him. Lucky!
Leader goes off the bend and wages a war in Kirkwall -unlucky

so he's got an interesting mix of luck.
In regards to Anders blowing up the Chantry...to me he killed people who were innocent in an act of terrorism. He didn't go after the templar head quarters even. So even though I never killed him I would never agree with his actions. Murdering innocents gets a zero in my book.
In regards to crying I feel like a monster! I've never cried playing a video game that I can remember. I've cried for movies though. Up gets me man. Every time.
Also welcome and stay delurked!