wow, I actually feel the need to reply to something, instead of just lurking.
this type of thing really aggravates me.
when a game is created with a strong female protagonist, like say, "Tomb Raider," there is always all this hype about guys going nuts over it and even on facebook, I've seen it plenty with my friends saying how they love Lara.
but, when I tell people I've played a Female Shepard, and enjoy her more than Male Shepards... they treat me weird.
"but oh wait, you know that Commander in HALO:4?? She's so HOT!" lol - another Jennifer Hale character...
it's a character. It's a character that we can choose to completely relate to, like making a Shepard look just like us, or we can make something our complete opposite and enjoy roleplaying them, or we can just enjoy creating a character, or even as my friend said back in 2009 -
"it's BioWare, the game has to be HUGE. So if I'm staring at someone's rear quarter, it's going to be an attractive female's."
My main Shepard is female, she's based on someone in fact. The fact it was Jennifer Hale as the voice actress just added icing to the cake!
you know what? it was one hell of a ride. I enjoyed playing Mass Effect, seeing her be a BAMF, for over 5 years now. I just finished Mass Effect 3 yesterday. I know, I'm behind in the times... but being a stay-at-home Dad with a 3 year old can cause things like that... putting video games on a back-burner 
to be honest, I see myself more in Garrus than anyone, and my FemShep has a relationship with him. Which, helps bring me into the story.
far as I'm concerned, do what you enjoy in the video game. I don't understand how someone can laugh, and create, and even well, "fornicate" to pornographic images of made-up characters, and at the same time make fun of a guy playing a FemShep, or a girl playing a GuyShep... world's messed up. If it doesn't harm anyone, do what you enjoy
screw the people that don't agree. They aren't worth the time.
the people that do know my story, think it's one of the craziest, most romantic, and heart-warming reasons for a guy to ever play a FemShep. Those that judge me ahead of learning that? They don't have the right to know, and aren't worth the time to explain.
as for you, MegaToxic - us guys that enjoy the "sensitive side" or the "finer rear quarter" or just a BAMF strong female protagonist with a gun, are here to support you.
my Shep (sorry for the craptastic quality... XBox360 FTW!!
lol)
ME2

ME3

Shepard and Vakarian
