When you say "us white people" I'm not sure if you're assuming I'm part of that group or if you are speaking about the group in general.
To clarify, I'm not white myself (I was speaking more generally). I'm not entirely sure what you mean by "positive discrimination", could you elaborate for me?
Sorry I assumed, I tend to only try to educate people who are white (yknow, it's not really my place otherwise. PoC are living through this, I just try to make it so they don't have to spend all their time and energy educating people who are oppressing them.) - so if I step out of place here, feel free to tell me to shut up.
But anyway, if you follow the equation where [rac]ism = discrimination + societal power, it's still possible to discriminate against people based on what makes them different without the power of your society behind you. In order to counter -isms, you therefore implement programs that count as 'positive discrimination'. Examples of positive discrimination are for example scholarships targeted at poorer students or ethnicities, stuff designed to offset the negative effects of isms and negative discrimination.
So basically what I'm saying here is that defending Sephi against people who are whitewashing is a form of 'positive discrimination' that is protecting the reality of her identity against people who want to 'fix' her. ofc, it's rarely that simple (for example, with fetishising) but I'm reluctant to support people saying it's okay to change her appearance because of their own aesthetic choices - nothing is decided in a vacuum after all.
I mean I love so many characters, but because of the isms that I encounter in any fandom, I end up defending characters that get attacked due to isms because they require more attention to be treated with the same level of respect as other characters.
There is no such thing as "positive discrimination" as it relates to skin tone. If we seek to uplift society beyond such concepts we can not in turn use them to seek some arbitrary level of parity.
I think what you're attempting to say here is 'we should see past colour'. Seeing past something that is intrinsic to your experience of living is reductive. Positive discrimination is an attempt to celebrate differences rather than erase them, and counter the negativity that already exists. We're not the same, and we shouldn't attempt to be. It's when differences are seen as negative and placed in power structures and hierarchies that we get issues.
I can imagine Morrigan quoting Claudia Auditore on this one: He should suffer for what he's done.
Anyway, back to Josie:
What kind of wine do you think she likes? Red? White? Sparkling? Rose? Dry? Sweet?
I can see her enjoying a mild red.
I originally thought about a sweet red. But due to the information about her enjoying living by the sea I imagine her drinking pinot grigio... Something dry and with a good bite.