I'm a bi girl that likes Morrigan. And I'm totally okay that she is straight and unavaliable to girls. What's the point of all this whining? It's how it is.
I don't think anybody's whining. As a guy that prefers Zevran to Alistair I was totally super okay with the romances in DA:O. And I'll be totally fine (if maybe disappointed in some ways) with there being a LI that is unavailable to me in DA: I.
Assuming you create a character match yourself you had three options in DA:O. I had one. It happened to work out for me just fine, but I am just trying to point out to people why that might really suck. I've seen lots of gay guys complain about not really liking Zevran and being unable to play a fulfilling romance in DA: O. I'm sure many lesbians gamers felt the same way about Leliana.
I'm not asking you to agree with me that DA2 did romances better than DA:O. I just constantly see people say "DA:O did romances way better than DA2." and I'm trying to explain why, for me, that isn't true. I'm tired and going to sleep after this post, so I'm sorry if you're not dismissing my argument, but dismissal is the number one response to my argument, so it's kinda frustrating.