That's like saying, and yes I know this is a huge hyperbole, that slaves shouldn't complain that they don't have freedom because "It's how it is". Complaints bring forth change.
Oh my, it's a frigging' game. No need to be so super serious about the unfair things. The devs can not physically do everything to please ALL the fans, so there will be some who are disappointed.
Some fans really do take the game waaaay to seriously, as I can see. And sometimes I can feel why Gaider is acting so mean...
Edit: I just wanted to add that I'm not the person who is okay with the situation because she "gets what she wants". The character I would like to romance will likely be unromanceable at all. But constantly bugging the devs and whining about it just doesn't make any sense.