It just seems absurd to me to create a cast of mostly unattractive characters
I don't consider the characters physically unattractive. I suppose I needed to make that clearer? The "least attractive" one for me is probably The Iron Bull. But I can certainly look at it and go "yeah, some people will dig him."
Should we have conformed to more traditional standards of beauty? Because to me that's a knock against including romances, because then it means more people "I want this character to be romanceable because I find them hot." I consider this an uninteresting way to incorporate romance into a video game. In fact, I have actually mused to myself (and to friends and colleagues) about how it would go over if the "clearly hot" characters were not the romanceable ones. I wouldn't be surprised if there was some backlash. Is it something that I should really take into consideration in the future? Or is it a case of realizing that we've been catering to particular tastes moreso than others, much the same way we have a history of catering to heterosexuality in the past? (and male heterosexuality at that)
If you're not going to give Solas hair, or you're going to make Beardy a big older guy with a heavy beard, or you're going to give the one guy a Freddie Mercury mustache, you have to do so knowing what the consequences of that will be.
If the consequences are helping compromise our institutionalized perceptions of what is and is not attractive, then it's worth it to me. Every single time. I don't consider it a good thing that people see themselves as unattractive because they are bombarded with imagery that is different than them. If a requirement for romance content is that they adhere to overexposed standards of beauty, then I don't think romance content is compelling.
Further, please do not take my statement as being surprised by people's reactions. That doesn't mean that I still don't find them disheartening because, to me, the characters are a lot more than their looks (whether it be video games or elsewhere). I've also become more socially aware that constantly perpetuating a particular impression of what is considered beautiful may not be a good thing.