I don't watch Game of Thrones, so I don't know much about him, but I really love the image of their blond knight in the armor with the flowers on it. Just from the images, I thought it was pulled off tastefully. He doesn't look like a joke or extremely over the top. You can still easily tell it's a guy in a suit of armor made for a man, but the design of the armor definitely subverts gender stereotypes and the actor, himself, is pretty while still being obviously male. That as a base concept is something I'd like to see more of.
Ahh, okay, I get you. Younger looking men in appearance, men that subvert gender norms here and there, are less hypermasculine, and men that appear more in your particular age group.
I can get behind the idea of them offering more variety in the m/m options, provided that they don't swing the pendulum completely in that direction and only start offering less masculine guys. I grew up in a time where pretty much every gay character on television or in movies was either an asexual effeminate man or a hyper aggressive leather bear (both played for comedy against the woeful straight guy lead). I LOVE that they are depicting regular guys who just happen to be gay or bisexual. Kaidan, Anders, Cortez, and Sky are all just guys. They aren't stereotypes (either direction) and I love that about them.
Yes, this is along the lines of my previous post I was making where I kept erasing and retyping and erasing again before deciding it better to ask for clarification from Mort before I made assumptions. I grew up in a time where every bi and gay dude character in the media -- even the majority of fiction books that dealt with non-hetero men -- were effeminate men, depraved effete and/or sadist villains, sassy sashaying joke gags, etc. Seeing a bi or gay dude that isn't stereotypical, that can be a "regular guy" or even a heroic action man or is as same-y masculine standard as any of the other straight dudes in a cast is still a very new and rare thing. Normalization, as it were, is extremely important to me to see. And 20+ years of one very narrow slice of primarily offensive stereotypes, it's a relief to be finding a few heroes, average joes, and normalized dudes that just happen to be bi or gay showing up (and as LIs).
I love that RPGs are finally having older characters. For so long, it seemed like almost every RPG was Japanese and I had to play a teenager. It was fine twenty years ago when I WAS a teenager, but I'm happy to see that RPG protagonists have aged alongside me!
That was the other bit I was going to bring up as well. Growing up, the majority of RPGs were Japanese, with teenagers typically saving the world, which is also a factor in why I think the age arguments ("but of course he can be a spec ops commander at 16 years old!1111") crop up across the interwebz, from people either liking that idea or having grown up with it to the point they think it's the norm of storytelling in the genre. Even as a teenager I really never liked this concept, hah, but I'm elated at how nowadays having mid-to-late 20s and early 30s characters/NPCs and protagonists is a more frequent experience. There's nothing wrong with having teens and young 20-somethings in a game, I just appreciate that it is more varied now across the gaming landscape.
Oh, what I meant about being surprised by Alistair's age in Origins is more the fact that his model appeared to have
the beginnings of crows feet at the edges of his eyes. It was more pronounced on my computer rig, so I concede it may also have been a graphical issue too. I find it harder to judge age based on personality, as there are plenty of immature 30 and 40 year olds out there, just as there are some very mature and serious young adults. So Alistair or Morrigan showing signs of naive virgin bro or selfish rebel girl respectively didn't read as "young" to me, even in their romances.