Not sure what's so unreasonable here. A lot of bisexuals do have slight preferences, and if I had a gun to my head and was forced to pinpoint Leliana's, I'd say women. I think I'd survive that encounter.
Huh, I somehow never managed to get into the Dalish Origin. The only thing I liked was the whole Tamlen deal if the warden is female. My favourites are the human noble Origin (not the origin itself, it was a bit boring to be honest) mostly for all the unique content and dialogue you get during the game, city elf origin as female and dwarf commoner origin.
From an story perspective, I think human noble and dwarf noble are the Origins that makes most sense, since these particular wardens have training for leadership, rather then the other variants that don't know squat about being a leader.
Well that's just, like, your opinion man. When you look at the Dalish Origin over the course of the entire series, it actually has the most recognition of them all (Velanna's dialogue, Witch Hunt going right back to where you started, Arianne, the dozens of little references with Merrill and when you meet the Warden's old clan, Mahariel-Lavellan letter....) Makes for a very satisfying run through, IMO. The female Warden/Tamlen thing was also brought up more in Witch Hunt and gave me some great ways to develop the character.
Something I always liked about a Dalish Warden is that they would bring the most experience with traveling the Ferelden wilderness (which is most of what you do in game lol). Morrigan has some experience but I don't think she traveled far from the Kokari Wilds. So the whole Ranger Warden thing is kind of neat (and Leliana can help you deal with cities xd).
Exactly, I actually think they make the most sense leading the party; a Dalish Warden probably knows the lay of the land better than anyone else in the party, and seeing as they're wanted criminals, it's a good thing they have more than their fair share of experience evading humans in the wilds...
Also, as for female Warden/Leliana party banter, it's not like there's nothing there at all. She brings it up with Zevran, and I remember Shale having a banter about it. And while not party banter, Wynne, Morrigan and Alistair all talk about it with you. It's not like it gets no recognition from the party whatsoever, it's just missing the cat fight dialogue from Morrigan, obviously.