I know right!
I mean, m!Warden x Leliana is my jam but I accept that Leliana is bisexual and that it's normal for a bi person to have a preference for one gender over the other. I have a bi friend who prefers males over females, for example. It's completely normal for the romance to have a different tone depending on whether it's male or female Warden. I tried explaining this to someone on Tumblr but all of a sudden I was attacking the person and disrespecting their opinion. So i just gave up.
Some people on Tumblr find everything offensive. That's why I'm hesitant to post headcanons/fan art of my m/f pairings for Dragon Age and Mass Effect. I have f/f as well, but most of them are m/f. I tend to avoid Tumblr now because people are currently riled up by the new N7 trailer for ME and why there's Femshep's VA in the trailer.
As someone who has Maleshep as her canon it irritated me when someone said all of us Maleshep players should delete their saves and start playing as the canon Shepard.
Yeah, there's no point in trying to appease the unappeasable. As a liberal progressive LGBT-friendly feminist guy myself, it's really frustrating to see social justice movements trying to solve real problems be drowned out by this self-indulgent white noise from the professionally offended. I wouldn't march to the beat of their drum; they're going to be angry no matter what you do, so what's the point in wasting time and energy trying to reason with them? Personally, I'd love to see your headcanons/fan art. You shouldn't have to be ashamed of the good work you do.
If anything, Leliana is an extremely loyal partner. I can't imagine her cheating on the Warden or anyone she's romantically involved with.
that's the thing about Leli that is glossed over a lot, I think. She stays down for you...neither distance or time would change that about her.
You both bring up an excellent point, and it's one of the reasons I love their relationship. Too often in fiction, one's love life and one's career/duty/calling are set up as mutually exclusive conditions; you can either be with someone, or stay committed to your cause, but not both. I love how Leliana and the Warden actively defy that. Their committment to each other hasn't changed, and indeed is stronger than ever despite the distance between them, but neither are going to abandon the things they believe in for each other either. It's... unusually mature.
I'm actually kinda reminded of SFDebris' Let's Play/analysis of the first game (which you should all definitely check out: http://sfdebris.com/...dragonage.php):"Can our hero fight both the Darkspawn and a treacherous ruler while still finding time to screw Claudia Black? Trick question, you make the time!" It's not Morrigan, but the same principle applies.
Awesome artwork, particularly the one with Leliana as a samurai archer type. You're right, there's a bit of a paucity of Sigrun art, but still, ask and ye shall receive:
http://aimo.devianta...igrun-318377454
http://captainmoutch...er-10-567637344
http://merwild.devia...igrun-534427609(NSFW, boobs)
I really hope they don't go too far with the whole Elf = Traitor thing. It would get unfortunate.
Me too. It would be the kind of lazy shortcut they might do, unfortunately, and I'm especially worried they might turn Merrill or Shianni into villains for the next game for the sake of cheap drama/raid bosses. Here's hoping otherwise.