Hmm. I liked the post, but...
...it's kind of a dilemma for me. On the one side, I'm probably also one of those who're on the whole "it's more realistic" side of the argument, on the other side I do understand it's a game - and especially since it doesn't impact me as much as others - I wouldn't really mind other people getting more out of this, if it's player-sexual/pansexual/whateversexual companions they want. As long as they're well written, of course.
Also, keep in mind I haven't played DA2 yet.
As an aside, it is a bit funny to me how Allan decides to "protect" the "poor" forumites who've been "attacked" by the ones who thought LIs are a minor part of the game. Now, I don't know which tone those posts had, but why shouldn't they be allowed to state their opinions? Again, I hope you deleted them just because of the tone of the post...
(I'm saying this because I'm hanging out at a mostly unmoderated forum where people can handle their own problems and aren't offended that quickly, so that's why I wrote this)