I'm perfectly calm. I've been calm all this time. Instead of stepping in with implications of loss of temper in order to try and discredit me, why don't you mind your own business?
I'm not implying anything. You began acting like my friend had some niche he thought women belonged in and then implied that this niche you made on your own was somehow lesser to selling shoes.
You're not helping this other poster in the least. He or she was using that example to bolster their own argument. You've just torn it down and told me I shouldn't take it seriously. You haven't undermined my position, you've undermined the position of the person you leapt in to defend.
You don't have a position because you made up an argument that was hardly counter to what's said. Crusty doesn't need my help because you hardly posted anything in counter to him. That example was perfectly valid. This is a roleplaying game, Plantiff. As in we play roles. He gave an example nothing more, nothing less. He doesn't need a defence for a perfectly legitimate role that comes with influence.
I don't see what rank has to do with it. If the way is barred to low-ranking clergy, but not to random travelling merchants, then that just raises further questions.
What? He gave a high ranking role because that would actually matter. The guy who sells me food is hardly as influential as a Chantry Sister, which was the point.
But I'd be opposed anyway, because I think people should be allowed to dress their characters in drag if they want to.
That was not the point at all, And a man dressing as a woman is cool, do whatever floats your boat.