"We want equal options" is an understandable argument, but when it becomes "Every LI must be available to me!" It crosses the line into self-entitled whinging.
I made a post
here with a hypothetical warden. Do you believe DAO is a better game because this mage is barred access to content that would fit her greatly but has been put behind a gender check? I know that had that mage been my first warden, I would have been very disappointed upon learning that Morrigan was an option for male characters.
This is my biggest issue with not having playersexual LIs. Representation and inclusivity have their fair parts in there as well, however.
The straight males who are advocating the LI's having a set sexuality come out with less options as well if it is the case.
Don't be so condescending.
While I don't agree with his tone, I strongly empathise with his point. Getting rejected by Traynor as a straight player is in my opinion not at all the same thing as being barred from Alistair as a gay player. In an ideal world, they'd be the very same thing. But we're not in that perfect world. We still live in a world where many even run out to buy subpar media just because it happens to have LGBT content in it (I've bought my fair share of crap, not gonna lie), cause LGBT players are all-too used to being invisible and ignored. When Alistair is denied, this pattern is repeated. When Traynor rejects a BroShep, it's merely an individual happenstance where somebody doesn't reciprocate another's romantic intentions.
Games have a long way to go before they achieve actual equality. Give me a game like Witcher where the PC is only gay and let's sit back and see if you won't mind it as well. Yea I thought so.
Let me add to this.
Even in such a game like The Gaytcher, it's just one game out of the thousands out there. It's probably interesting for many who are not homosexual men to play such a game (and I'm happy we feel that way! don't get me wrong) cause it gives them insight into something they're not used to seeing. It's nice variety.
Thing is, not everyone have the luxury of considering non-straight romance as "nice variety."