My issue with Murder Knife culture in the fandom is the same issue I have with people who get pumped that their Shepards can punch an unarmed WOC in the Mass Effect games- it usually feels like an outlet for a lot of unpleasant and ingrained biases.
My problem with this is that BioWare games are basically hard core murder simulators.
Darkspawn? Ugly, deformed human beings. And they are represented as a plague
to be wiped out. How is that not an outlet for a lot of unpleasant and ingrained biases?
Alternatively, the pretty, mostly white elves? Oh no, we shouldn't oppress them. You know, they're a metaphor for gypsies, Jews, and Native Americans. Please ignore the race that's represented as subhumans whose massive breeding causes them to swarm and overwhelm the (overwhelmingly white) human nations, and whose 'shocking reveal' is that they rape our women.
Yet I still enjoyed DA:O despite parts of it making me wonder why that 2,500 darkspawn killed achievement gave me a dirty feeling.
The thing is, if you don't enjoy killing people, you wouldn't play this game. If you are comfortable killing people who are faceless mooks (or inherently bad/evil) but not those with a name and backstory, I don't see that as being inherently better. Dehumanization is also a questionable psychological trait.
I'm not saying that there aren't misogynistic, racist, or homophobic players. I'm saying that they are no more likely to enjoy killing off named characters than people who only like to kill mooks.
Likewise, the original conversation wasn't about killing women of color, it was about oppressing mages. And I'm kind of tired of people demanding that I don't oppress, insult, or kill fantasy creatures.
Anders isn't a woman of color; he's a white man who made advances towards my female PC and never showed any interest in men in my playthrough. For me, DA II decided that the face of the oppressed was a straight, white dude... because he has a superhuman power?
That like having Thor as the face of the oppressed.
It's the same reason I roll my eyes at the X-men. Mostly white, mostly male, mostly straight heroes who are battling against a world that oppresses them. (though I admit it's gotten better) The most prominent Jewish character? Sometimes literally advocates the destruction of the human race on ground of genetic superiority. How ironic!