I was referring to the mindset of "We are going to lose this fight, DEMON TIME MUTHA*******!1!!". That is just stupid and evil and pathetic. Turning into an abomination when you're about to die just proves the Templars right and harms all of the other mages that aren't complete assholes.
I agree for a different reason. My mage characters always have a pride in their combat ability. The way they see it, no demon is more powerful than they are. Demons are weaklings in the end. So why summon them for help when you should be able to handle it on your own? And if they can't handle it on their own, then they either need truly trusted allies and friends to back them up or they need to admit that they finally met their match and suffer the death they earned with their weakness. Only wimps rely on demons, and my mages are no wimps. Fight alongside friends or have the guts to fight your own battles without needing to pathetically run to weak little demons because you can't handle something. In the end, your abomination form is probably going to be weaker than you already are. I have no doubt my mages could easily defeat an abomination form of themselves and could do it 1 on 1.
It's funny. The chantry and circles teach that pride is one of the most dangerous things for a mage because it makes you weaker to demons. Yet my mages are so prideful that it's exactly why demons never even get close to possessing them. They are so prideful that they are safer from demons then mages who have no pride. A pride demon trying trying to use their pride against my mages wouldn't even work because they have too much pride to want anything a wimp like pride demons could offer. In fact, that's why demons want mages... They're weak and they know it, so they try to possess mages to try to get some of the mages strength for their own. They convince mages that they're weaker than demons and thus demons have power to offer them, but it's actually the opposite and demons are just using manipulation to let you power them up. In fact, the chantry makes it easier for demons by convincing mages that demons are all-powerful monsters who can take them over effortlessly. Mages believing that just makes it easier for demons to convince foolish mages that they'll be powered up by the demon and are more easily possessed because of it, when really they will be weaker and easier to kill as an abomination then in their true mage form.
The chantry would be better off teaching that demons are insignificant nothings that most mages will have no trouble completely overpowering and that demons just want you because they want your power because they have so little themselves. I can practically promise a lot more harrowings would be passed if this was what they taught.