It's my understanding that the PS4 can technically play games right out of the box without ever connecting to the internet ( so I hear anyway, I don't know anyone who hasn't connected thier PS4 to the net ) but it is strongly recommended that you download the day one patch since it isn't capable of doing anything else without it ( and most PS4 launch title require a day one patch as well ). The Xbox One needs to be connected to the internet to download the day one patch, without this patch it's just a brick.
Sorry to hear about your Xbox 360. I think we've all been there at one point and stage. I cried like a baby when my first 360 died. Hopefully the guys at your game store can repair it.
I was the same way when I saw the red ring. Actually, my mom saw it first when I was behind the Xbox 360 plugging it back in after the second static failure. I wanted to try out another game to see what was glitching, the game or the console, and then she asks if the lights are supposed to be red. "No, no, no! They call that the red ring of death!"
If it comes back in working condition, I will honor its repair with another Mass Effect playthrough.
As for PS4, this article gives two options - download it to a USB flash drive first, or just call to have a disc sent in the mail. I'll probably use the second option if I'm worried about my lack of tech skill messing things up, but there are instructions here in case I need to use them. Or maybe it'll end up pre-installed on the next wave of PS4s by the time I can afford one.
Also, ALWAYS keep a console on its side. I don't know why Sony advertised the PS4 as being able to be kept vertically while simultaneously saying its not advisable.
I must have missed this earlier. Now I'll have to get creative with my console placement to make them fit on their sides on limited surface space. Does that advice go for PS2 as well, or just the newer consoles?