It is ridiculous how Alistair doesn't even have a *cameo* as a Grey Warden in Awakening. He could at least just pop up and say hi (maybe swapping with Loghain's cameo?) and explain that he's busy and give an excuse for not being there. Or, at the very very least, have Varel acknowledge there's another Grey Warden (Alistair) who's elsewhere. Nope, it's like he never existed until the epilogue slides :/
This is one of my distinct dislikes about DAA and why I feel like they took the lazy way out or were really set on you making him king, which I still see as you not being a warden but rather getting involved in politics, WHICH they even acknowledge in DA2 if he is a warden.
As much as I see some of Alistair's dialogue as getting annoying, as a general rule he is my love interest. As a lesser rule, unless I am really tired of him and throwing fireballs around him and the enemies to kill him because I'm that tired of the dialogue where telling him to shut it gets me nasty tones I still feel he is a fellow warden and he should be there in amaranthine, even more so because you are the only two ferelden wardens and this is a new post with Orlesians. The two from ferelden SHOULD be there to get things in order. It makes no sense. The blight is over and there is no real reason he cannot be there. What would a few cutscenes have cost them? Some extra dialogue. We get Oghren for cripes sake and I don't really even care for him, and I NEVER use him except when forced. Perhaps they discovered enough people didn't like alistair whining so they didn't include him, but you know, the thing about alistair is once you get past a certain point, he's fine. Hardened or not, once that landsmeet is over, if he a warden it might be a nice time to see what you begin to see when he is made king or if he is hardened where he seems less whiny and more of what you would expect for a warden. But no... we get.... oghren.