I don't think most people play for the romance or forget that that's not what the game is about.
But it is a part of the game and it makes it more real.
For example, the Warden. He/she was thrown into a terrible situation and failure was not an option, to have someone to care that extra for, to give you something to see and touch - not just "do it for the people of Ferelden!", to give you a direct cause and someone worth fighting for, woth dying for or worth living for.
To me, the romance makes the game more real in a way. Why would you sacrifice yourself in this way if not for the people you love?
Maybe I just get to carried away
But to the romances, like I said adds to making it feel more real and it makes the game more engaging.
It's not the most important thing, but it helps carry the story and your character.
I agree to an extent, but you can't deny that a LOT of people on these forums talk about romance and their LI as though that's all there is to the game, or as though it's by far the most important part of the game (which perhaps it is for them, and i'm not saying that there's a problem with that.)
I feel like my post was somewhat taken the wrong way, so i'll just repeat what I said in another thread to try to clarify what I mean:
I appreciate the romance content. I just don't think it's the be all and end all of the game. Let's not forget that this IS a game after all. With an actual plot, an interesting world to get lost in. Many interesting in-world issues to talk about, not to mention the actual gameplay aspects of it as well.
I just want to be clear that this isn't an attack on anyone, I actually like the romance content. I just view it as an added bonus to an already great game, not as though it's actually what the game is about.
LOT'S of people love the romances, and it's absolutely the most important part of the game for them, and that's fine. I just hope more information is announced soon so people will have something new to talk about. (Although i'm aware that the majority of threads will still be dominated by romance discussion.
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