So, I'm new to the forums (and Mass Effect...got it a few days ago, beat it, on playthough 2 starting at level 50

) but I've been looking for a place to put my two cents in about this issue. Indeed, I could probably type a multi-page response to everything said here that would probably shut a lot of people up, but I just don't feel like it. So, here's what I think about the topic:
Bioware opened the doors to romance options in their games. They may not have been the first, but certainly this is a newer option for gamers in general (like, within the past few years). Now, if you're going to have hetero-focused romance options in your game, and completely omit the ability for same-sex options, then you must deal with the consequences - and, hopefully, Bioware will. Whether it was the writers, developers, Bioware itself as a copmany , or EA, smoeone down the line decided that romance options would be heterosexual.
Now, to all of those who simply say "This is just a game, stfu, quit whining," and so on - you must realize one thing. Most people probably wouldn't give a crap had the developers not included a romance option in th first place. But guess what - they did, and gay gamers (including myself), specifically gay men, were kinda pissed that "their" shepherd, whose life history they decided, appearance they designed, and attitude they manipulated, could not be anything but a big old hetero. Not only that, but they HAD to engage in on-screen heterosexual activity in order to unlock the romance achievement, and though not required to complete the game, it certainly adds more to the Mass Effect experience. So, for all the "haters" out there, put yourself in our shoes. Imagine having to watch Shep and Kaiden get it on in order to fully experience the game. Gross, right? Yeah, well I feel the same way about having to watch straight characters get it on as well (I left my adorable little Sheppy a single gay man for this exact purpose).
Long story short, when gamers play games it's to escape reality, have some fun, and emmerse themselves in a truly engaging experience. Instead, while playing this game I was simply reminded that yes, I'm still a minority, and that even across various solar systems thousands of years in the future, I'm still oppressed. Of course most people could care less about this issue, but then again they're probably part of the white, male, heterosexual, middle-to-upper class majority. There's really a much deeper sociological meaning to all of this, but I wont bother getting into it on here. Those are my two cents. I apologize if I "trolled" here (to be honest, I don't spend a lot of time on forums and don't know what that means) but I feel that this needed to be said.
I just really hope that someone form Bioware will actually read this and take it to heart.