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Actually, saying in public like "Wow, she is extremely ugly, or looks like a man" is disrespectful. Yes, opinions are fine, but its how abrasive its been used. Its better to say, I don't consider her attractive in appearance. Quite shallow mind you. More to the point that since Sera was confirmed lesbian, more hate came out against Cass and Vivi, that I noticed. Without really knowing any of these characters better, but just going by small descriptions. Honestly, I am not worried about who will be available to who, cause I do play variety of ways. Some guys have yet to learn appearance isn't everything, and some get lucky to not worry about it, but these are game characters.
The thing about women looking like dolls is the concept that more often in the games, women tend to be sexualized a little more than normal. DoA is a strong contender on that imaging. If I got the title mixed up, its the one with the girls in bikini's bouncing around. This is what a lot of in game females tend to look like. Some of the appearances in some of the games have gotten slightly better than what was. This is the point of that type of argument and disagreements. When a female finally looks like some of the women I tend to see around my life in DA:I, they get bashed by men in here. This is the point of defense. Not saying your opinion is wrong, just a lot of expressions goes further than should be.
Your opinions are yours, as mine are mine, I cant and will not change yours. Its who you are, and that is also another point of arguments. Some expecting to force a change upon others. hmmm... sounds too familiar and why I avoid some people
If someone is lesbian or gay or even straight, it shouldn't be yelled about, its done. Some don't get the concept of let it be, that is where roughness/disagreements/arguments happens. Case in point, a guy told my friend that if she was in his country, she would be shot cause she doesn't like men only cause he wanted to have her one night. I'm not the only one that stopped talking to this guy anymore.
I'm not posting this to change your views, but to express why some of the heat is going on in here. I am a straight male, more often equal representation falls kinda flat. It doesn't take much homework to see the case. AC: Unity on a lack of women, blatantly saying a woman is too much work to do. When Liberation features a woman assassin itself. Black men have only had a few representations themselves, black women almost have none. It should be fair to have something for them as well. This is what most in here want, equal representation.
It's disrespectful if it's said in such a way. There is a different thing to say "i think she is ugly" and "OH MY GOD SHE SUCKS BALLZ LOL". If you believe that calling someone ugly is the breaking point of civilized conversation then yes you will probably get angry, but it's a fine line between what people think it's acceptable and what is not and not everyone has the patience for it. I do agree that a lot of times, commenting on the looks of someone can be out of place (like probably this thread), but this situation would happen even if I made a thread and asked everyone their sincere opinion about looks. Also the point of these threads is to learn the opinions of the others. If I'm expected to say that everyone is beautiful and attractive and awesome just to not be rude, then there is no point.
I don't want to make wild generalizations but straight men know of ugly and unattractive as much as the rest. Some of us embrace it. We fart publicly and drink excessive amounts of beer. Calling someone ugly isn't a big deal for us. Behaving like this leaves no room for illusion that we are attractive to everyone although some may like it. It isn't such a leap to think that there are women who have similar attitudes. My problem is with the people that just won't accept the fact that their vision for human can be considered unattractive and are quick to channel their frustration using the stereotypes and making everyone a cliche.
Also a lot of us don't understand what the other sex finds attractive and I bet this applies for them as well. When I was younger I thought that having long hair, goatee and painted nails and eyes is attractive (and I still do). Some liked it, some made a point of bashing me. My mother had a field day teasing me and it became even harder when she learned that my best friend is gay. What is my next move? I can either accept that some people are like that and that's the point and the price of being different, or I can blame the world and become disconnected.
I do understand why you are posting and I welcome it because it's people like you that allow me to grow and understand the reason for my views. But also I'm in the role of the advocate. I like participating on this forum and I hate bashing as much as the next person but I can't just simply stand idle when someone takes advantage of it claiming a higher purpose that we all have to agree on.
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but thanks to the both of you nonetheless.
