If media in general are sexist, and people who are sexist assholes would have been so with or without games, then the question is: is gaming any more sexist than media in general? Just because it's male-dominated doesn't automatically mean it is. Nor does the fact that a few assholes make such threats invalidate all criticism against her.
No it doesn't invalidate criticism. I don't know if anyone said it does. Nor do I know anyone that says that it being male dominated makes itself sexist in and of itself.
I do disagree that the question is the relative severity of sexism relative to other media (I have a hunch it's pretty much equivalent, but I'm just making an assumption). Unless you're supposing that some amount of sexism is okay (a precarious position), it could be argued that the existence of any sexism is worthy of being examined and addressed. I don't think it's irrelevant if there are other forms of sexism that are more damaging. I have virtually no practical way of dealing with sexism in say, other parts of the world. I do, however, have the practical means to deal with it in gaming. I do so as a consumer and a developer, and also as a critic.
Frankly, Anita has made many other problematic claims. I remember she once claimed that physical strength differences between women and men were purely a social construct. Apparently testosterone is a "social construct" now...
Have a link handy? I'd like to see it because that seems like a pretty silly claim to make.
But, I digress. The most serious problem for me is the idea that she's not playing the games that she's criticizing. I don't know what games she has and hasn't played, but many have suspected as such (you can google this for more, don't feel like posting links). Some games she's criticized before they've even been released (Bayonetta). For me personally, one of my biggest peeves is when anyone criticizes any media without having actually watched/played it. So if Anita is talking about a game that she hasn't actually played (preferably to completion), to me that invalidates anything she has to say about it. First impressions and word-of-mouth can only go so far. Nothing, absolutely nothing, can take the place of actually playing a game. There have been many games I thought I'd hate from what I saw of them, but loved once I actually played them (and vice versa, sadly). This is part of why I had so many intense debates with David7204, since he was practically the patron saint of complaining about games he hadn't actually played. I'm proud to say that I've never criticized a game I hadn't played, and played to completion at that. Unless Anita offers proof that she's played the games she's talking about from start to finish, I won't take anything she has to say about them seriously.
This seems like an insulating, bunkering down position. It reads as "Well you've said some stuff, but I disagree with it, so I'm going to require you to do more work before I even consider hearing your point of view." What exactly would constitute proof?
I'm also not sure I agree that nothing can take the place of playing a game. We're talking about a high level analysis and part of that is looking at themes that are common across gaming industry. If the pervasiveness of a trope is harmful (and this is the million dollar question), then I'm not sure why it's completely invalid to point out the existence of a trope in games. I can understand though, as my understanding is that Anita is actually a surprisingly empowering game. But I suppose by the same standard, I'm not really permitted to make an assessment since I haven't played the game.
But that does cause a bit of a problem. Bayonetta struck me as a game not worth my time because of the impressions I got from it (well, there's a good chance it may not have hit my radar at all to be honest). In a world with my finite time, it does seem a bit silly to create a character like that... unless the belief was that her looking like that would be good for game sales. But that would lend validation to the idea that the actions of gamers warrants further examination.