This is pretty much how I plan to RP my main Dalish character,still loves her people,wants to preserve their culture and see them thrive,but more open-minded about other people and their beliefs.
And yeah,Thedas is indeed a horrible place to be but I like that they managed to make the universe grey than having one group portrayed as evil while another one as good.And now that having characters like Mae and possibly Dorian, who represent a more "noble" side of the Tevinter imperium,is also refreshing.
I agree. As much as people love to work with stereotypes (makes life easier, but not better), even in Thedas groups aren't monolithic. I think Inquisition will provide several cases of that, such as Dorian "the Nice Tevinter Magister" or Iron Bull "The Undercover Fun-Loving Qunari". Being critic about your group doesn't mean not being part of it, no matter what the No True Scotsman fallacy says.
I mean, DA:O already provided examples of different approaches to culture and religion, including the Dalish Origin itself.
Paivel: "Children, hear of the fall of the Dales! Hear the tale of what makes you Dalish. Would you care to begin, da'len?"
Dalish Warden: "Well, children, it begins with a mommy and daddy elf..."
(Every time I play that scene, I just can't not use the third option
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That initial dialogue with Paivel is the equivalent of the Human Noble's dialogue with the Chantry priest at their castle. It serves to paint your character as a serious and devout follower, a snarky and irreverent believer, a person who just doesn't care about those issues or even an atheist, among different roleplaying choices. I hope Inquisition will provide scenes like that.
Well my point was more about the Dalish being singled out.
I understand. However, this is a thread about elves, so it's understandable to have the Dalish hat mentioned. And let's be honest, as much as I love Dalish lore and culture, they have their issues. As Lorien19 pointed out, there's no white in Thedas. Everyone has their own share of being victims and jerks. Well, maybe Tevinter could be called 'black', but it seems Dorian is here to change even that.