My "Default" state of the world (DA:O and DA2):
Hero of Fereldan was an Elf within the circle of Magi. His personality is of one of the kindest of hearts, although he does not shy away from conflict and stands up against what he believes wrong. After the events at Ostagar he first traveled to the circlr of Magi in order to ask his friends for help. He found the circle in ruins, but was able to save the mages and add them to his army. He then traveled to Redclif, saving the town and with the help of mages breaking the curse over Connor.
After that he encountered Zevran, forgiving and adding him to the party, and later falling in love with him. The hero then traveled to Orzammar, killed the fallen paragon Branka and destroyed the anvil. Giving the artifact to Harrowmont to rule as the new king. The hero then traveled to Dalish, and convinced Zathrian to break the curse, saving human and elf alike.
In the landsmeet, the hero killed Logain himself, giving Alistar the kingdom. Right before the battle with the Archdemon, the hero accepted Morrigan's offer for the ritual. Having no interest in women himself, he persuaded Alistar to do the ritual in his stead: No grey warden gave his life in exchange for killing the Archdemon.
As the warden commander, the hero allowed Architect to live, and saved both the city and the keep. All of hero's companions survived.
Finally the hero tracked Morrigan, and trusted her for the sake of their friendship, allowing her to pass the Eluvian unharmed with his blessing.
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The champion of Kirkwall, Hawk, is a male mage. He is also kind and generous, and romanced Fenris. After an unfortunate incident in the deep roads, His brother became a grey warden. But he was able to gain his family status back, and even killed the Arishok in defence of Kirkwall.
As an apostate mage, he tried his best to avoid the conflict between mages and templars, but at the end had to take the side of mages after Anders betrayed him and murdered hundreds of innocents. Except Anders who was killed for his treachery, all his companions followed him loyally to battle and saved as many mages as they could.
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So this is how I have played my play throughs in DA:O and DA2. I have made 2 more tapestries: first is when the Warden is a female human warrior and marries Alistar as the Queen. The second tapestry is the worst possible scenarios in DA:O and DA2 with almost all companions dead or betrayed.
I can't wait to report on my DA:I game. 