At 106 years old, I don't date older women...but for someone who lives over a thousand years, I'm madly in love with (kid) Liara
.
Hey, she's an alien -- I don't expect her to have all the EXTREMELY HIGH VIRTUES of an [infallible] human! Seems to me, she can be tender (with that CAT’s PAW voice
) – and FIRM in combat
. She’s no pushover, that’s for sure.
IMO, she is the most diplomatic in civil conversation – yet brutal with enemies.
As to the question of this thread -- when it comes to “hating Liara” – some of us can read between the lines. 
----besides she has 5 fingers (not 3 claws)