That's not a valid comparison. The beacon choice was made by the entire(or at least a major part) of the Asari government, while the betrayal of Udina was the work of a single man. We don't even know if Udina was indoctrinated or not when he did his little 180°.
You'll have to back that bolded claim with something more substantial than just "because I said so". We don't know how asari government works. In fact, the wiki states that "few outside highest echelons of the asari government were aware of the part the Protheans played in asari history." What's that, one percent? Ten? Fifty? In any case, I'm willing to believe that what you're saying here is not the case.
Besides, what is more dangerous? A mistake that takes careful orchestration of entire body of government(which, again, I believe is not the case) and takes millennia to unfold or an action made by a single person that takes couple of years(if you're willing to believe Udina and TIM took that long to plan the coup, which I again find unlikely) to get in motion.
Udina screwed big time. If there wasn't a war going on, humanity would loose the seat on Council because of what he did. No buts, ifs, maybes... scram! In fact, I'm pretty sure, were humanity not the special little snowflakes we are in MEverse, we should loose the seat anyway. Not to mention major political and economical ramifications.
And yet, we never hear even a line of background chatter on how much humanity is hated. Something that alien population of Citadel at least would be very much entitled to after the coup.
What the Asari government did is absolutely despicable, you shouldn't try to defend it.
I'm not trying to defend anything, though I believe I understand why they did it. Despicable also isn't the word I'd use to describe it.
They screwed up and they paid the price. But they weren't the only ones screwing up and they are the only ones taking the blame.
Mistakes were made. I find it funny we can only point a finger at one faction, when there is, in fact, blame to be shared.
Precisely. Who exactly gets to be high and mighty in this regard? The human councilor stages a coup, TIM and Cerberus with their rich and powerful backers on Earth and in the Alliance spent all of ME3 openly helping the Reapers, the salarians sat on the sidelines during the war and tried to uplift the Yahg, the quarians didn't care about the rest of the galaxy and started their own little war. Are all these races failures? The only race that looked good during the war were the turians. We're told only a tiny cabal of asari were privileged to the knowledge that the prothean beacon even existed, and that is still a step removed from actually collaborating with the Reapers, attacking a race that is willing to fight the reapers or watching from the sidelines.
Such as this. Thank you for pointing it out for me.
Sure the Turians screwed up there, but that's completely irrelevant here.
I believe uber is, in fact, referring to humanity sending nukes into turian space.
He can fix me if I'm wrong.
EDIT: proven wrong, my bad.