I'm starting to feel like the only person who'd be pretty devastated if the mustache guy and Solas were our only choice for male LIs lol
Personally I don't think Solas will be the character they reveal next, this coming month. I do recall DG saying that his design was still being worked. No, I don't think he'll magically sprout hair (le sigh), but his clothing, eye color, whatever could still be in flux. They may not be prepared to reveal his iconic look.
I think they will go with Iron Bull. A fully complete Iron Bull appeared in The Fires Above trailer. They're ready to display him from an artistic standpoint, I think.
Yeah, I don't really think there should be two mage LIs. Just because I have an... appreciation... for magelings, doesn't mean everyone else should be forced to. LI diversity is way more important to me than to have every romance fit my exact standards. I'd like to be able to change things up on subsequent playthroughs, even if it means sacrificing a delicious mage LI
On the other end of the spectrum, I also like shoulders and scruff (edit: and ramen, mmm)
Honestly, Iron Bull is the only male companion so far whose appearance doesn't appeal me as an LI, but I've no doubt that could change. I love Solas and Cullen, and I'd be perfectly happy with Dramatic Hands, Bearded Warden or even Varric to a lesser extent.
Also, good point about Iron Bull! I wouldn't want to see a character that hasn't been finalized, it would be awkward to see an altered version show up in the actual game.