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[chibielf]

I'm sorry. I had to do this.
 

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*cries*

[Liedeke]

The cole icon suits you. very well...

too well....

Well, I have aspergers...

Oh dear....lol

[Vylix]

Well, I "have" aspergers...

Oh dear....lol

You're not the only one. -glomps-

[Mahal]

I'm sorry. I had to do this.

 

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So pretty and sad the same time. I hate you guys and love you the same. What do you say: "A sorrow shared is a sorrow halved."

 

 

btw am I the only one who just drags Solas everywhere? I want to take Dorian and other people....but ... then we are three mages and XD ah well I am soooo hopelessly lost.

[Eivuwan]

Well, I "have" aspergers...

Oh dear....lol

 

So you really feel like you can relate to Cole huh? It's understandable.

[Eivuwan]

http://geeky-jez.tum...bed-by-lavellan

 

Omg why did I have to read that? I just feel even more crappy.

[Vylix]

http://geeky-jez.tum...bed-by-lavellan

 

Omg why did I have to read that? I just feel even more crappy.

here. watch this iron bull romance scene, it'll make you laugh.

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[Liedeke]

So you really feel like you can relate to Cole huh? It's understandable.

Never really thought about it, but yeah, I guess so, haha. I a way.

I do love helping people...and I hide myself al lot..or I don't get noticed.

 

Oh dear, I really am a bit like Cole I guess, haha

[Mims]

That art is beautiful!

 

I can't wait until I am done with this current job I am working on. I'd like to do a nice tarot design for my Lavellan, and a picture of Solas. 

[Liedeke]

You're not the only one. -glomps-

You have Aspergers or something similar?

Hugs are always good! -glomps back- lol

[Mahal]

Well, I "have" aspergers...

Oh dear....lol

never really understood how "bad" aspergers is. One doctor once told me I had it, because I was and am terrible shy before I know someone...and because I read a lot...but isn't it some kind of light autism? I don't want to offend you, just interessted.

[Birdy]

here. watch this iron bull romance scene, it'll make you laugh.

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HAHA.  XD Jose couldn't stop staring.  

[Eivuwan]

Aspergers/Autism is complex issue. There are the really high functioning people and those who need a lot of help. You can't really generalize by the diagnosis.

[Liedeke]

it was a little super soft brown bear that she bought at a fundraiser.

 

I actually have an entire huge plastic container (you know those ones that people use to move or store stuff?) full of beanie babies and my entire toy chest my grandpa gave me is in the storage room at home, packed full of stuffed animals. The rest are piled in boxes on top of it. I use to be absolutely terrified of the dark (and a bunch of other things. Very dark childhood led me to get overly attached to stuffed animals) and I believed that they would like shoot a laser grid out of their eyes rofl. So i had them set up strategically all over my room to cover every direction i was scared of. a few to cover  under the bed, a few for the door, one for the little clothes closet and another for the bigger storage closet my room was attached to and a whole bunch for the window area haha.

I also had frequent night terrors (I don't know why but both of my sisters had this issue too but not my brother) and they would calm me down when i finally woke up from them.

Right now I only have Alps the Alpaca with me because i moved in with my fiance and his family, which makes space too tight to bring more than one or two.

 

Although I might sew myself a chibi solas one eventually >.>

That story is adorable and I can relate to it, haha.

It makes me smile like crazy for some reason.

 

Will you post a picture when you made it?

[Vylix]

You have Aspergers or something similar?

Hugs are always good! -glomps back- lol

Yeah Aspergers, it seems to run in my family to be honest. My mum was diagnosed with Aspergers, then my brother was diagnosed with Autism (he's a mid-functioning area of the spectrum). Because of this my two sisters and I went through screening (girls are also harder to diagnose, so they wanted to check our brother first after mum's diagnosis) and me as well as the next oldest scored high on the screening. The youngest scored low and was not at a significant enough chance to go in for diagnosis. So my sister and I went in and both ended up diagnosed with Aspergers.

[Liedeke]

never really understand how "bad" aspergers is. One doctor once told me I had it, because I was and am terrible shy before I know someone...and because I read a lot...but isn't it some kind of light autism? I don't want to offend you, just interessted.

Offending me is almost impossible.

I don't see it as bad, I just am what and who I am. So is anyone else who is diagnosed with something like it.

 

Asperger is indeed a kind of autism, but different. I guess it different for each person.

For me, my socials skills work different I guess. I say things that aren't appropriate most of the time. I don't mean to be overly straight-forward but I usually am.

I notice things, but don't notice that it isn't the time to say it. I can read people but I can't really tell when to let people know that.

The only thing that doesn't fit is that I do in fact feel empathy, quite a lot actually. I just handle it poorly by normal social standards. But since my entire family (my dads side) has Aspergers or something similar I'm starting to think the definition is wrong, since all of them feel empathy.

 

A little side-note, I learned that sometimes it is better to say nothing at all. So I'm either socially awkward, or silent. lol

[Mahal]

Yeah Aspergers, it seems to run in my family to be honest. My mum was diagnosed with Aspergers, then my brother was diagnosed with Autism (he's a mid-functioning area of the spectrum). Because of this my two sisters and I went through screening (girls are also harder to diagnose, so they wanted to check our brother first after mum's diagnosis) and me as well as the next oldest scored high on the screening. The youngest scored low and was not at a significant enough chance to go in for diagnosis. So my sister and I went in and both ended up diagnosed with Aspergers.

Sorry for the OT, but how can you really diagnose it when it is pretty low? I had an intelligent test and a brain scan. ... and a pretty bad conversation, where he offended my mum really bad, who was sitting beside me. I just couldn't take him seriously after his way of behaving with my mother. and not to forget that he said I should stop my hobbies because I would be too intelligent >_> (I loved working at the fire station back then)

[Eivuwan]

Offending me is a almost impossible.

I don't see it as bad, I just am what and who I am. So is anyone else who is diagnosed with it.

 

Asperger is indeed a kind of autism, but different. There are different kind of Aspergers.

For me, my socials skills work different I guess. I say thing that aren't appropriate most of the time. I don't mean to be overly straight-forward but I usually am.

I notice things, but don't notice that it isn't the time to say it. I can read people but I can't really tell when to let people know that.

The only thing that doesn't fit is that I do in fact feel empathy, quite a lot actually. I just handle it poorly by normal social standards. But since my entire family (my dads side) has Aspergers I'm starting to think the definition is wrong, since all of them feel empathy.

 

Yes, that's why I think this issue is too complex to be explained by a diagnosis. Social tact is important in society, but there is a refreshingness about people who are straight-foward.

[Mahal]

Offending me is a almost impossible.

I don't see it as bad, I just am what and who I am. So is anyone else who is diagnosed with it.

 

Asperger is indeed a kind of autism, but different. There are different kind of Aspergers.

For me, my socials skills work different I guess. I say thing that aren't appropriate most of the time. I don't mean to be overly straight-forward but I usually am.

I notice things, but don't notice that it isn't the time to say it. I can read people but I can't really tell when to let people know that.

The only thing that doesn't fit is that I do in fact feel empathy, quite a lot actually. I just handle it poorly by normal social standards. But since my entire family (my dads side) has Aspergers I'm starting to think the definition is wrong, since all of them feel empathy.

That is interessting. I've learned more ^^

 

Is this the reason why you actually choose Cole for your avatar?

[Liedeke]

Yeah Aspergers, it seems to run in my family to be honest. My mum was diagnosed with Aspergers, then my brother was diagnosed with Autism (he's a mid-functioning area of the spectrum). Because of this my two sisters and I went through screening (girls are also harder to diagnose, so they wanted to check our brother first after mum's diagnosis) and me as well as the next oldest scored high on the screening. The youngest scored low and was not at a significant enough chance to go in for diagnosis. So my sister and I went in and both ended up diagnosed with Aspergers.

It seems to run in families, I think it is genetic at least for some part.

In my opinion, Aspergers is great, nothing to be ashamed of. Being "different" is not a bad thing.

My dad's side of the family has all sorts of things.

[Eivuwan]

Sorry for the OT, but how can you really diagnose it when it is pretty low? I had an intelligent test and a brain scan. ... and a pretty bad conversation, where he offended my mum really bad, who was sitting beside me. I just couldn't take him seriously after his way of behaving with my mother. and not to forget that he said I should stop my hobbies because I would be too intelligent >_> (I loved working at the fire station back then)

 

You need more than an intelligence test and a brain scan to diagnose autism.

[DarthEmpress]

Did anyone notice how in the last romance scene Solas

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shakes his head after removing the vallaslin?  He does that in every romance scene lol ^^  Almost like he can't believe how beautiful she is or something.

 

I also really like how if you choose the middle flirt option when he talks about showing how much you mean to him you say "I have a few suggestions *wink wink nudge nudge*" and he's like "I shall bear that in mind *wink wink nudge nudge*" XD  I swear I didn't think he'd be so confident in flirting.  It was a pleasant surprise.

 

I like when Lavellan is hesitant about having her marks removed and he says, "I'm so sorry for causing you pain.  It was selfish of me.  I look at you and I see who you truly are, and you deserve better than what those cruel marks represent."  It really is her choice in the end.

[Nyaore]

 

Did anyone notice how in the last romance scene Solas

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shakes his head after removing the vallaslin?  He does that in every romance scene lol ^^  Almost like he can't believe how beautiful she is or something.

 

I also really like how if you choose the middle flirt option when he talks about showing how much you mean to him you say "I have a few suggestions *wink wink nudge nudge*" and he's like "I shall bear that in mind *wink wink nudge nudge*" XD  I swear I didn't think he'd be so confident in flirting.  It was a pleasant surprise.

 

I like when Lavellan is hesitant about having her marks removed and he says, "I'm so sorry for causing you pain.  It was selfish of me.  I look at you and I see who you truly are, and you deserve better than what those cruel marks represent."  It really is her choice in the end.

 

Which just made my feels explode all over the floor and into a messy puddle. WHY DOES THIS ROMANCE RUIN MY EMOTIONS?

[Eivuwan]

I'm really surprised at the quality of some of the fanfics. I usually don't read them because they're over the top and break character, but some of them are just so good.

[Birdy]

 

Did anyone notice how in the last romance scene Solas

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shakes his head after removing the vallaslin?  He does that in every romance scene lol ^^  Almost like he can't believe how beautiful she is or something.

 

I also really like how if you choose the middle flirt option when he talks about showing how much you mean to him you say "I have a few suggestions *wink wink nudge nudge*" and he's like "I shall bear that in mind *wink wink nudge nudge*" XD  I swear I didn't think he'd be so confident in flirting.  It was a pleasant surprise.

 

I like when Lavellan is hesitant about having her marks removed and he says, "I'm so sorry for causing you pain.  It was selfish of me.  I look at you and I see who you truly are, and you deserve better than what those cruel marks represent."  It really is her choice in the end.

 

 

 

Did anyone notice how in the last romance scene Solas

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shakes his head after removing the vallaslin?  He does that in every romance scene lol ^^  Almost like he can't believe how beautiful she is or something.

 

I also really like how if you choose the middle flirt option when he talks about showing how much you mean to him you say "I have a few suggestions *wink wink nudge nudge*" and he's like "I shall bear that in mind *wink wink nudge nudge*" XD  I swear I didn't think he'd be so confident in flirting.  It was a pleasant surprise.

 

I like when Lavellan is hesitant about having her marks removed and he says, "I'm so sorry for causing you pain.  It was selfish of me.  I look at you and I see who you truly are, and you deserve better than what those cruel marks represent."  It really is her choice in the end.

 

I always thought of it as, "I shouldn't do this, but I can't help myself"