Also, changing the subject a little, but:
Re: Solas as an antagonist
Tbh, I love the idea. But I feel it’s a dangerous thing to wish for, since it would have to be done in a certain way for me to truly like it. Because I really fear for his character going off the rails, or some other similar fate. I trust you, Patrick?
I think the reason why I like it a lot is that I don’t see antagonistic as necessarily villain. I wouldn’t want him ever to be a Big Bad, I think Bioware has progressively become a lot better with their writing but that their villains/Big Bads are still very straightforward in their intense villainy. But to have him and the Inquisitor (especially Lavellan, I’m stuck in this) dancing around each other, progressively working towards a same end goal, but with confronting methods. I would love it to there be a way to settle it without violence, I think any less would be a disservice to him. After all, to truly rise to his level, to truly outplay him, you probably have to make him see, understand, put him in the same page.
It would make for a VERY engaging romance, where two people can truly come out as equals. Where the change in both characters comes through following their own paths, not forced on each other.
But! a dangerous thing to wish for! I just don’t want his character to be changed / jump the shark, or to have to really end him or see him ended one way or another…. I’m too emotionally attached by this point.
If they could pull that off, I would love to see it. I would like Lavellan and Solas to be a little more equal. I think part of the reason he can be such a jerk is that she is so much less...knowledgeable than he is. So he assumes that she can't handle the truth. I think it's dumb for her to have to prove herself, but I think if she did then it would solve a lot of problems.
We already know there's something special about the Inquisitor though, beyond the mark. Whether there's even more to it for Lavellan, we don't know. But Solas's romance dialogue, second scene... I really think there is an actual honest-to-goodness spirit of wisdom in Lavellan. The only reasonable explanation I would be able to give for this is that her clan has some sort of ritual involving such for the Keeper's chosen successor. If you're possessed by a spirit of wisdom, after all, it would be difficult to make unwise decisions for your clan.
Maybe she went through something similar to what the Seeker's do (made tranquil and then made un-tranquil)? I feel like if she were bound to an actual spirit of Wisdom, that would be something Solas would know. It'd also probably come out in the Fade (like it did with Anders/Justice). Or Cole would say something. Binding a spirit to someone also seems unwise since we know that it is very easy to corrupt a spirit and corrupted wisdom = pride.
Plus there are the meta-reasons that nothing that happens to Lavellan pre-Inquisition can be too specific: BW doesn't know if a Lavellan will play as a particular type of character romancing a particular elf. Would it make sense for a warrior Assquisitor to be bound to a spirit of wisdom? Plus would BW make an F!Lavellan playthrough that different from a Dwarf, Qunari, or Human playthrough?
I do think something is special about her beyond that she's just a cool lady, not sure what though. I don't think Solas knows what either, or else he wouldn't need to ask how/why she changed in scene #2.
If it did, it likely would have made the Inquisitor more like Fen'Harel... after all, it is his orb and his magic and his influence.
But I, like others, do not like to believe this is the only reason that Solas was interested in Lavellan. And I don't believe it, because he mentions noticing her from the Fade... he may have noticed other, non-romanced Inquisitors, too, but he does not tell them so. There is already something special about the Inquisitor. We just don't know what.
I love this idea in headcanon. But again, if he's been watching her then why is he asking her if she's changed? Wouldn't he know? I like to think he notices her from the Fade, but after he meets her. Perhaps when she's lost post-Haven (and following the completely coincidental wolf howls).