I'm glad you brought up Native Americans because is it just me or does their predicament scream Dalish? Native American culture is disappearing. For the few people who actually care to notice it is happening rapidly. Reservations are horrible-- the drinking problems, over population, crime, and lack of education are just some of the problems these people face. And yet people continue to live on them. For some it's because they're trapped in a cycle of poverty but for others it's because they're proud. Proud of their history, their people, and their culture. I respect that they refuse to give in to goverment bribes or mainstream culture (for some), but it also doesn't change the fact that they are dwindling. The Amish too are a group of people that segregate themselves to stay separate from mainstream culture. Is it really better? It may work for a time but that doesn't change the fact that there are more and more Amish kids that don't come back from Rumspringa (hope I spelled that correctly).
And you are right when you say that there are many examples of a dominant culture indoctrinating a weaker one but I think there are plenty of examples of cultures mingling. The US is of course a prime example of this. We may have taken more from England when we developed our culture but there is so much more to our culture than our inherited English traditions. New Orleans seems almost alien (to those living outside it) with the amount of other cultures influence in it. My father's side of the family is Pennsylvanian Dutch-- certainly a very unique mix of cultures.
Elf blooded humans aren't elves, you're right, but they have a parent that is which means they still have a connection to the elves. I'd also assume that for those humans who know their parentage that elf blooded kids are probably treated pretty crappy too. And yes, if all the elves and humans bred together there would be no more elves (there would be Bretons!!!), but that's just as bad as elves and humans going into relationships together because of that. I say let al the races mix! We will have humelvenaridwarfanity! It will be wonderous! (If not strange looking) But seriously, isn't it the same as that white power idea of white people dying out because they bred with dominant genetics of darker people?
I do agree that a middle should be found. Like I said in an earlier post your culture and heritage should be respected. History should be important, but not a defining factor on how you live your life.
I live in a very Amish area (the Wal-marts here have buggy parking) and it's very odd. They have a very fascinating mix of cultures- it is very Dalish now that I think about it. They very much look down (not all, but many) on the "English" (what they call people who are not Amish), but feel free very often to adopt conveniences that they wish, like sneakers and coach purses. lol.
There are many different...well, versions, of Amish too, even though what we're grouping together for this conversation would likely offend them all. Mennonites, Amish, New Order, Old Order, Beachy, Old German, German Baptists...and the things they take from the "English" might differ depending on what group they belong to or which region they are from.
Some in a group near us might be okay with wearing pastel dresses, but some say that is going too far and you can only wear black. Some say you can have backs on the seat of your buggy, some three miles down the road say you can't.
Mennonites can have tv and drive cars, but in some areas the car should be black. Less flashy. Some Amish who I have worked with can use a computer better than I can and in jobs use modern items daily but do not at home.
They have such different rules now that the original Anabaptist culture has eroded except in the strictest of districts and even then who really knows.
It's really rather fascinating.
/educationalrant