Re: Immortality/godhood only happening for Female Lavellan...
Why would it only be so? Do you think that whatever Solas is doing would somehow exclude anyone else? Or do you think that this possibility would not be available to other Inquisitors? Because I think it would, even if you were Solas's hated enemy. Being able to be Solas's immortal equal would just be a side benefit for a Lady Lavellan who romanced him.
I don't think it's something he'd give up easily. I also think it's worth considering that despite having suffered tremendous loss over the years, Solas as an immortal elf is probably not psychologically "built" to handle loss the way mortals are. He's used to people being around for centuries. Romancing him and then dying of old age (or any other reason) is kind of... beyond cruel. Again, it's not that death hasn't happened, or that he hasn't seen war, etc. But I expect if he were to stay with someone, he'd want them around for a very long time. Memories aren't much when you have thousands of years to miss a person.
Solas himself says it's not a spell. He's been sleeping for a couple thousand years. I'd say it's pretty certain he's immortal.
I think Solas has not done any body-hopping. Flemeth doesn't call him by some other name; she knows him as Dread Wolf. She recognizes him. I suppose it's possible--maybe he really did possess the body of a youngster back in that Tevinter village, the body of a slave who wanted to rebel? Or maybe that's just a story he saw in the Fade, that caught his interest.
I think godhood's a bit different from going through an eluvian, though. Or immortality. Etc. I think that's something everyone would have the chance at.
I repeat, this probably will be a big issue for Solas if it isn't already--assuming that the relationship continues. Which I have a theory about...
But yes, when you're used to everyone you know living for thousands of years, it would be very difficult to cope with grief. Perhaps that's why the Solas we meet is so very sad and desperate and lonely. Someone he knows, some vestige of that world, should still be around, by his reckoning. Maybe that's why he feels he has to bring back the past, more than any other reason. Because all of those people shouldn't be dead, they're immortal!
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It had not occurred to me that Solas would not be accustomed to the death of his friends. I imagine it would be less about the death - as such things had happened before - but the decay. It wouldn't just be that Lavellan would have an accident (though maybe with her high-risk lifestyle), she could die of disease or old age. Solas isn't terribly familiar with seeing either of those in elves, since that wasn't present until after the civilization started to crumble.
So...now I'm more sad about the romance. I almost feel like pulling a Solas and having Lavellan be all, "it would be easier in the long run..." "I don't want to distract you from being a god..." so he could maybe find one of the other immortal elves. I wouldn't do it, but the temptation is there.
Oh! Sorry. Wasn't clear about the timeline there.
In this crackpot theory, the first creations of the Maker were pure spirits. Smack me if I'm wrong here, (I don't have much background in various religions aside from the general broad strokes you pick up via cultural osmosis) but it would have been very much like Judeo-Christian hosts of angels or Tolkien's Vanyar / Mayar / etc. They were servants of the Maker, obedient to the point of being pure extensions of his will. No free will of their own. Everything sang the same. This is key.
A bit more on the Tolkien side: they sing the harmonious Song of Creation, and praise him, until one of the host (Morgoth in this instance) believes he can one-up the Maker and improve upon the song. Harmony is broken.
Not so different from Judeo-Christian Lucifer, I think? Though again- smack me if not, because I really don't have a firm grounding here.
Anyway. In crackpot land, these pseudo-spirity first children of the Maker are the ancient elves. Or they become the ancient elves. Back then there aren't really firm lines dividing such things. We're still in a pre-veil world, where the Song and will is constantly shaping the world. No hunger, no cold, no desire, etc. No mortal concerns. It isn't until the veil goes up and they have to deal with existing in a permanent, unyeilding reality that the newly-mortal elves have to struggle with such things.
This is all still crazeballs, though. I haven't really poked at it for obvious holes or tried to match it up to the scraps we know.
Biblical creation narratives are kind of weird...but I get where you're coming from now. I'd forgotten that the spirits were supposed to have been created at the same time. Though, if Solas existed pre-veil, then there were certainly things like desire, rage, jealousy, etc. The elven pantheon pretty much embodies bad behavior from the stories. And the immortal elves still needed sustenance, as evidenced by the practice of brushing the potion on people's lips during uthenara. Unless there's a mid-phase where elves are still immortal but not spirits and that is where Solas came from?
I have a scary thought. Part of the reason why we like Solas so much is because the graphics and animations are well done. Imagine if technology gets to the point in which we can play the game as though we are really experiencing it. I mean, how many of us can get back to real life?
Sometimes it is so well done. Look at this:
I know exactly where that gif comes from, because I can actually read his lips/expression.
I used to think living in the Matrix would be kind of scarey but now I think it'd be kind of cool...