So meta, I love it!
A few pieces (localised to Solas) feel like they fall into place (but forgive me if this has been mentioned, we are moving fast!) When we meet Varric he tells you that Solas kept the mark from killing you while you slept after the events of the conclave. What if the method of Solas keeping you alive involved something he had not even been sure was possible – had only theorised?
In the later conversation between Cole and Solas, in reference to Lavellan, Cole mentions how she is now “real”, “but she can’t be, because that means that everyone else could be real, too”. What if the method of keeping Lavellan alive involved doing something to her which altered her in order to be more like him? More “real” to him?
If we accept that the anchor may be allowing Lavellan access to not just the Fade, but a range of possible worlds including that of the world outside of the game, then Solas may have willingly invoked the spirit of the player into Lavellan. Whether his intentions were purely to keep the power of the anchor intact, or as a happy coincidence in simultaneously saving a life is another matter. He later seems surprised at his own success
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When Solas seems amused in meeting you (in contrast to his demeanour for the rest of the game) it is perhaps not entirely due to you simply being alive (and his orb power intact). He smiles as he greets you as another player.
A handful of subsequent moments, like the one on the balcony where he asks “Has it changed you? Your mind, your morals, your… spirit?” suggest that he wants you to know that he knows that you are more than what you appear to be to everyone else there in Skyhold.
This also may support the repeating occurrence of mythical characters who change names when they desire to, or shed a name when the meaning of it no longer applies (as Solas suggests to Abelas, and as we know he himself has done in the past). It is akin to naming an avatar - starting a new identity in order to perfect those scores you didn’t quite get right when you played as the last one.
So, a slightly eerie thought: How long has Solas been playing this world of Thedas alongside you? How many times have you unknowingly crossed paths?
Haha it is all waaay out there but this train of thought has me giddy with delight, thank you! 