Hm. On another topic, I remember madrar going on a meta-tangent about how Solas might be sensing the Player controlling the Inqjuisitor's actions.
On a certain level, would that then mean that it's us, the players, romancing Solas, and not our Inquisitors, for story purposes? That he's in love with the player, not Lavellan?
At that point it gets kind of weird, doesn't it? Much as I adore the romances, I play them for my characters, not for me...
Still I thought that theory was very interesting, and quite possibly true, at least on some level.
It does get a little weird. =w=
Still, I think there's something there, even if it's just Bioware occasionally nudging us about game-as-fade parallels and opportunities for "real" change. It definitely puts an uncertain spin on some Solavellan interactions, but most of the relevant comments aren't romance gated, and Solas isn't the only one who can sense something beyond the surface.
Cole describes Solas as "bright", his "voice ringing with fullness from both worlds, guiding me to the shining places." It seems reasonable to infer that, from his perspective, "complete" beings literally shine, like the key shards when you view the world through the eyes of the Tranquil. It makes sense. The shards simultaneously unlock a physical door and what we assume is a fade prison, thus must exist on both sides of the veil. Also (extrapolating context from earlier banter) the "shining places" becomes a plausible reference to the Beyond, where spirits that have changed and been "forgiven" can rejoin the Maker. Solas certainly guides Cole in this, helping him to return to an existence of benevolent purpose either as spirit or man- critically as a result of Cole's desire and
choice to do so, not as a result of blind obedience to his spirit nature.
Anyway. The key point here is how Cole describes the Inquisitor, when asked.
Cole: "You’re too bright. Like counting birds against the sun. The mark makes you more. But past it… you reach across, mindful, meaning. You pull it through to this side, make it real here. And past that, the weight of all on you. All the hopes you carry, fears you fight. You are theirs."
Too bright. Even brighter (more "real") than Solas. As fully as he inhabits both the reality of Thedas and the fade, the Inquisitor exists on an additional level. As he explains in true Cole fashion, the mark (the Inquisitor's connection to the Fade) is one component of that brightness, but not all. Past that is the Inquisitor's physical existence, which has a racial element well worth picking apart on its own, given key differences if she's a dwarf. And past that...? The final piece is the player, with the weight of all on us. The guiding spirit on whom all of the Inquisitor's actions and choices depend.
Given the similarities of their nature and apparent meta-perceptive abilities, if Cole can perceive this in the Inquisitor, it's not much of a stretch to imagine that Solas is similarly aware.
(...or even
more so, if- as Sister Squish pointed out- he had a direct pre-game hand in anchoring you to the Inquisitor, Neverending Story-style. @w@)